I am 15 year old, going to marry, tell me ways to reduce pain for 1st intercourse, thanks.?

Answer 1

You are much too young for marriage. Where do you live and is this something you yourself want to do or is this an arranged marriage? If this is not your own choice, leave, escape, get away. Women are not possessions to be handed around by men. You have your own life to live and enjoy. There are many, many agencies that can help you if you are in the USA. If you feel obligated or want to marry, then at least become educated about birth control. You are too young to have children also. The amount of pain,if any, depends greatly on your partner's expertise. Your desire overcomes any discomfort. But at your age, you are still not physically mature enough to fully enjoy sex. At this age most girls and boys are still at the experimental stage gaining experience and understanding as they grow.

Answer 2

WHOA!!! Are you serious? I guess I should answer this as if I were responding to an adult. There really is no way to get around the pain. Your husband should use a lubricant, take his time and be gentle. Once you get past the painful part the rest is pure pleasure. I hope that you are making this marriage decision for yourself and are not being pressured. Marriage is a big commitment and can be difficult. On the other hand it's great that you have saved yourself for your husband. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 3

What in Gods name are you doing getting married in the first place for you are way too young what are you a freshman in highschool you really need to think about this before you do any thing stupid cause getting divorced is alot more expensive than getting married and you have your whole life ahead of you you really need to enjoy your childhood and wait till your an adult to do adult things

Answer 4

I think you are too young, but I suspect you didn't come here expecting criticism. Only about 50 percent of women experience pain. Obviously you won't know if you are one of the 50% until you have sex. Use lubrication, I hope your husband has enough sense to go slow and be gentle without you having to tell him, but if that's not the case just ask him to go slow.

Answer 5

Me mom married at 15, had me at 16, no problem. I think the only thing she regreted (other than missing on life and teenage fun years) was not to be able to dress me as a freaking highland doll for longer than 5yrs when my dad finally stepped up for me.

Answer 6

Are you sure that you are ready to be married? There is no rush and make sure that you have condoms or are on the pill! When having sex for the first time try not to be too nervousk, make sure you are relaxed and are sure that this is the right person and that they go on top and take it slowly until you get used to it.

Answer 7

You do NOT need to be getting married at your age. You are much too young for marriage and intercourse.

Answer 8

if your worried about reducing the pain then you are way to young to understand what it means to have sex. i understand that sex can either be fun or emotional but it should be both, with someone you love. at 15 i dont think your idea of "love" and or "marriage" is mature enough to be making life altering choices. just keeps um zipped up and wait a couple 10years. atleast till you wake up and see that your first time and your first love probably wont be your only one. settle too soon and you will be unhappy.

Answer 9

You shouldn't be getting married at 15!! You are still a child..

Answer 10

In what state do they allow babies to get married at 15? Where are your parents at? If you are seriously going to do this....man I hope not...there's no way to reduce it. You just have to deal.