Both Rabbits, and Virgo/Cancer combo..good future?

Question

My man and I were both born in the same year, thus we are both Rabbits. He is Virgo, I am Cancer...seems like we can read each others minds. We are very compatible...but sex is practically non-existent. Neither one of us is sex starved either...don't seem to need it. But in other areas we are definitely on the same page, and almost each other's clone. Any comments?

Answer 1

VIRGO & CANCER

Both of you are inclined to mood changes that, at times, can irritate each other. For example, Cancer experiences periods of melancholy, tenderness, concern, worry, nostalgia and sentimentality, which Virgo may not understand or sympathise with. Virgo can suddenly become irritated and irascible over minor annoyances, and at such times, is capable of intense sarcasm and criticism, which can be extremely disconcerting to Cancer's tender, sensitive feelings. Virgo must be prudent, and Cancer must strive to be forgiving when things to a little awry. However, you are both capable of enormous devotion to one another (and to your children if you have them), and taking care of one another comes naturally to you.

Both of you have the emotional habits of worry, anxiety, and over-concern about loved ones or life in general. You are both caring and supportive, but you express this in different ways. Cancer is more emotional, compassionate and tender, and appears more sympathetic than Virgo, who wants to help but may seem unemotional and critical at the same time. Virgo's support is often shown by doing something practical, taking care of something concrete and tangible (running errands, doing the shopping, take care of business, etc.) while Cancer empathises with others' feelings and personal experiences far more easily.

Virgo is fastidious and particular about food, health, and personal habits, and can be very fussy about order, tidiness, cleanliness, proper behaviour, etc., which makes Virgo difficult to life with sometimes. Irritability over others' inefficiency, lack of punctuality, or sloppiness is also a habit of Virgo's. Virgo's perfectionism is also turned inward as well, so that Virgo may feel inadequate or that accomplishments are "never enough". Learning self-acceptance, self-love, and relaxation are important for Virgo's well-being, and Cancer can contribute significantly to this because Cancer is more accepting and non-judgmental than Virgo is. Cancer, on the other hand, has a lot of emotional ups and downs and appreciates Virgo's quiet devotion and faithfulness.

Virgo is often critical and coldly analytical of Cancer's ideas, and Cancer is likely to feel belittled by Virgo. If both of you are able to offer criticisms and comments with a helpful, positive attitude, then this astrological influence need not be overwhelming, but the tendency to feel blocked and frustrated in your communications is very strong. You must make sincere efforts to listen receptively and sympathetically!

Virgo is fascinated, intrigued, and sometimes even mesmerised by Cancer's inner qualities. You draw out each other's deepest, hidden feelings, drives, needs, and ambitions. The uncovering of your inner needs and hopes is likely to cause both of you to undergo some major personality changes as a result of this relationship. You share a deep, inner bond; this is not a light or superficial relationship!

Together the two of you have good instincts regarding investments, planning for the future, and awareness of the long-term effects of your actions. This is a boon and bodes well for the longevity of your relationship. Though not very glamorous, perhaps one of the greatest assets you have as a couple is your ability to simply wait out bad times, and to maintain realistic hope in the face of your problems.

You work well together on the level of practical, mundane affairs and could function very well as business partners. When you blend your energies, financial matters, investments, and plans for future security tend to work out quite well. Because you are able to cooperate to be faithful to your shared aims and goals, you make a successful team.

Romantic illusions and fantasies, erotic imagination and dreams of perfect Love all play a crucial role in your relationship. To avoid being severely disappointed and disillusioned, it would be good to recognise from the start that your partner is not a Goddess or God, is not meant to rescue or save you from your problems, and is, in fact, a lot less perfect than you believe! More likely possibilities, such as pretending to be something that you are not, or trying to rescue your partner from his or her own predicaments, can be equally trouble-producing. Either or both of you are apt to feel you were seduced or lured into the relationship under false pretences, but probably you simply fooled yourselves!

If you are willing to accept the less than beautiful and ideal aspects of one another, an authentic relationship based on compassion as well as eroticism can evolve. If you can't do this, the more tragic implications of the phrase "love is blind" will certainly become clear to you both in time.

The two of you really enjoy each other's company! Cancer has a great deal of confidence in Virgo and is able to see Virgo's best qualities. You are very encouraging and supportive of each other, helping each other to be more confident, open new doors, and advance and grow in both inner and outer ways. This positive note of good will and harmony is also invaluable in helping the two of you overcome differences in temperament and other stressful aspects of your relationship discussed elsewhere in this report.

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Two Rabbits

As they're both timid, sweet and compassionate, two Rabbits together could be a match made in heaven -- but any relationship needs to be grounded on Earth once in a while! Life for the Rabbit is a highly subjective affair; this Sign is deeply emotional, idealistic and artistic, with great potential for insecurity. Two Rabbits together feed off one another's emotions, including pessimism and anxiety; the balance in this relationship may be delicate, easily upset.

If these two are amorous, their relationship is likely to be very loving. This Sign tends to idealize relationships, a quality that can be a problem for other Signs but, Rabbit to Rabbit, only serves to heighten the sweetness and emotional intensity of the affair. As Rabbits need lots of support and encouragement from loved ones in order to maintain equilibrium, two together must take care not to bring one another down when anxiety sets in. If these two live together, their home is likely to be quite lovely and comfortable. Rabbits are artistically inclined and love to entertain their friends and families at home; dinner parties will be candlelit, with soft music playing in the background to add to the mood.

As business partners, the same dynamics apply. Their office will be tastefully, artistically decorated and will likely resemble a home much more than a workspace; it also may be a bit cluttered, as Rabbits place more importance on following their artistic muse than on cleaning and keeping things neat. Creative ideas will abound in a company headed by two Rabbits, but they will need to make doubly sure that the practical side of the business -- paying bills, keeping track of finances -- is in good hands (perhaps not their own!).

Two Rabbits share a compatibility of eight, on a scale of one to ten. Click here to see other Signs' compatibility ratings! Also, it's important to remember that each year is associated not only with a Chinese Sign but also with one of the Chinese Elements -- Metal, Water, Wood, Fire or Earth. That means there's Metal Rabbits, Wood Rabbits, Earth Rabbits ... Find your Element as well as your Sign and see how your Element affects your Animal nature.

Answer 2

Yeah this sounds pretty much like a Cancer/Virgo match. The friendship is really awesome and the compatibility on the friend level is awesome but the sex life tends not to sizzle. But Virgos and Cancers make up for the lack of sex in different ways! Good Luck!

Answer 3

Cancer and Virgo is a picture perfect zodiac match- and um, don't worry about the sex- male Virgos have a low sex drive (I am MARRIED to one!) they make up for it in affection and warmth. Virgo males (and Cancers too) just realize there is more to life then Sex. We are newlyweds but only do it like twice or three times a week- not too bad, but on the low side. He says he'd rather once ever week or two- but I don't sweat it. Like I said- Virgo boys just realize there is more to life- and love then sex. They sure know how to spoil, love and respect their ladies! I EFFING LOVE THEM! (Me= Cancer Moon, Him= Cancer ASC)

Cancer gets along with Virgo pretty well, one of the better zodiac matches for them.

Cancer With Virgo:

Cancer is shrewd in caring for their finances, although he/she may not be emotionally able to handle the criticism that will surely be coming his/her way should there be a mistake. Living with the critical Virgo will not be an easy task for the emotionally high strung Cancer who will take all the criticisms to heart and sulk for days. However, in spite of this, the chemistry is exceptionally good. The Virgo will be very "in to" the Cancer, and the feeling will be mutual. This deep, almost unconscious connection will be very strong, making this a good astrological match.

cancer and virgo - astrological compatibility rank = 8 (10 is best)

Cancer will appreciate Virgo's care and attention to detail, although they may not appreciate the critical eye of Virgo, especially when that criticism is aimed at cancer that takes things to heart as a rule. Virgo will appreciate the loyalty and sincerity of cancer, but will need to be a little more demonstrative and affectionate with cancer.



CANCER goes with Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus and Virgo. (best match is Taurus)

Best Match For Cancer Is Taurus

This is an excellent match and you will find it hard to tear yourselves away from one another! Stay clear of getting too wrapped up in one another though...

Worst Match For Cancer is Gemini

You are too active for this one. The Cancer will want to stay home and cling, so to speak, while you want to go out roam, do things. Forget it! Your energy level is too much higher then the Cancer, and this will in most cases be too much to overcome.



Cancer + Virgo

Water + Earth = Mud

This is a rich and fertile combination of two feminine zodiac signs ruled by the Moon and Mercury respectively. Cancer and Virgo in combination can produce wonderfully imaginative results on all levels of experience. Your sensitive ruler, the Moon, and the intellectually brilliant Mercury of Virgo, combine in the most wonderful play of celestial forces. Great friendship and understanding result from this recipe, but at times Virgo has some difficulty understanding your Cancerian mood swings. When Virgo asks you to “think things through and don’t be so emotional about it”, you’ll look at Virgo, and reply, “But can’t you feel what I’m feeling?” Both of you are at opposite ends of the spectrum in the way you see a particular problem—you, Cancer, emotionally, and Virgo, intellectually. Cancer is a friendly sign of Virgo and a sector of life fulfilment, so Virgo will slowly but surely begin to experience the more responsive side of your personality. Likewise, you can become more reasonable as the empathy between the two of you gets stronger over time.

The one specific area you must handle is Virgo’s tendency to criticise and judge you severely. Your vulnerability, being what it is, may not withstand the ruthless and at times incessant demand for Virgoan perfection. This may also, unfortunately, be translated into your most private area of sexuality, where Virgo demands a performance that is not in keeping with your more easy-going, slower and more receptive nature.

You’ll be a good friend to most Virgos, but in particular those born between 13 and 23 September. Marriage prospects, if you choose, can come your way from those Virgos born between 3 and 12 September, as Saturn, your seventh marital ruler, is their co-ruler. You have some difficulties communicating with Virgos born between 24 August and 2 September due to the Mercury co-rulership. You may need to be prepared for some deep and meaningful discussions that are not your normal taste.