I really need detailed advice. I am really attracted to this girl. I am a girl and this is my first time having these feelings. How can I hint or flirt with her for her to know that I want her. She doesn´t know that I am bi and I don´t know if she is bi. Please don´t say ask her out or bring up the subject. I need to know something I can say or do, something flirty and bold.
2006-07-26 02:58:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be your self and let her know with subtle hints that you swing both ways. Gage her reation wiht some comments about lesbians or gays and see how she reaponds.
2006-07-26 03:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my gf had the same problem when she approached me. What she did was to write an email saying that she is sorry to be doing this to me but she had been going crazy cause she had these feelings for me and she could not hold them any longer. That she thought she was in love with me and she hoped that we could somehow be together. You could do something like that.
Another suggestion is for you two to watch a romantic lesbian-theme movie together and watch out for her reactions. Maybe she will want to comment the movie afterwards and you will know how she feels about it.
One good line after having watched the movie is "don't you think that watching 2 girls together is not sooo disgusting? I mean I can see why it is a turn on for some people". Then listen to her answer and you will know.
2006-07-26 05:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was in this same situation three years ago with my current girlfriend. I had never had feelings for a girl, but there was this one girl that I went to school with, that I all of a sudden had a crush on, and she was a friend of mine. Well i just came out and told her one day, and she was like I would have never suspected it cause I know that you don't mess with girls. Well she was open to it, and we went out, and we are still together today. So my suggestion is to just let her know.
2006-07-26 03:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Female in Texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always hint her first. you dont wanna freak her out. If she goes "Blah" then back off and think of plan B.
2006-07-26 03:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋