ive been with my bf for 3 years now. i know that "beginning of the relationship" feeling doesnt last forever. i think im just bored. and ive been thinking of this other guy. my bf hasnt done anything wrong, besides being boring. so whats wrong with me?
2006-07-26 02:46:53 · 18 answers · asked by *~* tErrA *~* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well...is nothing wrong with you... is just the fact that you don't feel well with him any more you should talk to him... and see what's wrong.. and if it doesn't work.. you should think of breaking out with him... maybe the other guy is more interesting and will make you happy;)
2006-07-26 02:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by tearsofangels 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you do love your bf but are getting bored, try to spice things up a bit... talk to him openly and try to get the sparks flying again - after all 3 years are a lot of time to just ditch cos you got bored... remember what it was like when you first meet and there was the excitement and mystery,,, go on a date or just do something unusual together. but if you feel he's simply not the one and you don't want to even try, then you are ready to move on. good luck
2006-07-26 09:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u r just bored and need companionship, not relationship. there isn't any LOVE betw your bf and u.
u r not ready for relationship yet, u still wanna go out and play... that's y u r bored... give yourself some thought, what u like to be in 3 yrs times? or 5 yrs times? or even 10 yrs times.... define your goals and works towards them.... hope u can find what u want.... Cheers!
2006-07-26 09:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Leo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm in the same boat. I think that it just isn't exciting anymore so we want more than what we have. If you are thinking of someone else that is a sign to move on. Don't waste time on someone that you don't want to be with. I know I'm not.
2006-07-26 10:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a verb. It is something you do, not something you feel. When you ACT like you love, the feelings associated with love soon follow, and even more, he will start acting more loving toward you, too. It is my unromantic opinion that you can love anybody. Love is something that has to be worked at every day.
2006-07-26 09:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jennie C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you don't want want to be around your bf it is probably a good sign that you don't love him and that the relationship isn't going anywhere.
2006-07-26 09:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Guy in Cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing,if you don't feel anything your bf is just not the one. ditch him and after a few weeks talk to the other bloke.
2006-07-26 09:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your boyfriend know you are getting bored. Now don't get all catty when you see him with another girl if you decide to leave him.
2006-07-26 09:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by laa_dee_fukin_daa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not theone for you. Trying talking to him why you think he's boring. Maybe he needs to be more outgoing and fun to hang out with....Communication is important
2006-07-26 09:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by chaliniezzel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got a crush on the other guy think before going anything
2006-07-26 09:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋