he is just gong to use me
thats what he said,and i agreed on,
this is my first time and I want to be with him,
2006-07-26 02:10:15 · 15 answers · asked by swept away 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you do not have to be pathetic. it is your choosing of your thought process. look inside of yourself and ask-why do I feel this way. you may want to make a list of your PROS and CONS. ask yourself-what is it that I am lacking and do I see it in a man. you can always ask, a friend, parents, other parents, clergyman or clergywoman, social worker etc. I am assuming that you are young?, you should not be having these thoughts at your young age. it will take some investing and investigation into yourself but it will be worth it. start now and enjoy life. good luck send me an email for your personal quest.
2006-07-26 02:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! You are conciously making the first major poor choice of your life. Maybe you will luck out and he will have an STD or something!
Also, this guy seems like a serious jerk to use you for sex... oh and let's not forget to mention here that you aren't going to make him love you by doing him. If he said he is using you, then that's all it will be. You are pathetic and immature.
2006-07-26 09:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very pathetic but as you said, you want to be with him so it's posible giving yourself a chance. You are doing this for both of yu, right? But there is something where you should draw the line at. Remember to take a lot of care.
2006-07-26 09:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he's going to use you dont let him, show him your a strong woman and that your better than that. then he WILL want you, men like strong women they just dont want to admit it but the stronger and independent you are the more he will find you appealing. Once you become his used girl or the "one that will always be there" your nothing more than an easy booty call and he will never respect you
2006-07-26 09:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you still have time to change your mind! The first time should be special. Find someone who loves you back and will make you feel special, not used! You are NOT a sex object!
2006-07-26 10:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to give your first time to someone who is only going to use you. It is about emotion as much as physical stuff, and it will be so much better for you to wait until you find someone else and are in love, and he is in love with you!!!
2006-07-26 09:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Leah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pathetic. Sorry.
2006-07-26 09:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, you can do better than that. I don't even know you, but I know you can do better. I think you'll end up hurt and regretful. :( I hope you're ok though. Good luck.
2006-07-26 09:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be a bit more specific. Not enough information to go on.
2006-07-26 09:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no, The guy anwsered right above mine is a jerk.
2006-07-26 09:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋