My mother'n'law lost her husband last sept. and since then-no matter what time-day or night--she needs something--clean her house, do her dishes, vacuum 4 her, at HER convenience and it should be the minute she asks--honestly how understanding can a person be, there is no physical thing wrong w/her--while we are there helping her, shes on her butt doing nothing---
2006-07-26 02:05:12 · 7 answers · asked by Carla G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get her a servant
2006-07-26 02:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by still breathing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, regardless of anyone else's feelings? Havent you thought of what she felt after losing her husband? Maybe it is still diffiucult for her to cope after that. There might not be anything physically wrong with her but have u thought of what she feels inside? Emotionally? It may seem like shes a pain, but that person has feelings too... It may be that she's still sad because her husband died... and she needs attention from her family. Just give it to her. At some point she'll realize that shes being a pain, and evntually, things will be normal again.
2006-07-26 02:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by joe_logs_a_co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In-laws are and will always be a royal pain in the Butt. best to avoid them when you can.. let your husband deal with her..
2006-07-26 02:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by 'Cause I'm Blonde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal.....be more understanding and understanding to her needs. Sometimes, it takes more than a year or two.
2006-07-26 02:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to deal with this is to treat her the way you would want to be treated.
2006-07-26 02:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by mommas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are like that.no heart.if you have no other alternative you have to bare with it,till you are liberated by HIM.sorry.
2006-07-26 02:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by ninnaajji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an answering machine and caller ID
2006-07-26 02:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋