We've gone for VCT but formerly agreed to wait till the wedding night which is just two months away. But now I see how disappointed she feels when I can't proceed beyond kisses whenever she comes to my house or whenever I visit her. She has once boldly requested for it while kissing her and preparing to leave her appartment. Please advise.
2006-07-26 02:03:24 · 13 answers · asked by Phillo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
PLEASE DON"T? I'm begging you!
Especially if either or both of you guys have a relationship with God! There is something called spiritual and sexual bondage and it will haunt you for the rest of your life!
All I can ask is that you explain to her that you guys should not because just imagine how good it will be if you don't and when you are on your honeymoon and it will be the FIRST time and she will remember it for the rest of her life? Don't you want her to remember it as the best, first time ever?
2006-07-26 02:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Chellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke? If not, don't do it. She wants to sample the milk before she buys the cow. If she is not satisfied with the sample the wedding could be off. If you do give in before, make sure you practice a coulple of times before the big night if you know what I mean.
2006-07-27 09:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by ZoSo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I can tell you that sex before marriage is more exiciting.
2. Why do you want to wait till wedding? If it has to do with your relligion, it's ok.
2006-07-26 09:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by en 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is pressuring you to do so, maybe she isnt the right girl for you. Just like men shouldnt pressure women for sex, women shouldnt pressure the men either.. If she isnt willing to wait, then maybe she isnt worth being with.
2006-07-26 09:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be more exciting to wait until your married and see each other in the buff on your wedding night
2006-07-26 09:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her your reasons for waiting is she can't except them leave her but for the record there are ways to pleas her without intercourse its called four play u can play with her vagina untill she cums while she plays with your penis have sex with her eith your hand/fingers have sex with her but do not put your penis in her your penis will just be messaging her clit and will get her off
2006-07-26 09:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being scared and do her she wants to check out the merchandise before purchase.
2006-07-26 09:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would kind of suck to marry her, then have her find out that you are no good in bed wouldn't it?
2006-07-26 09:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by a_poor_misguided_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it is such a precious thing ask her to wait
bc it is important to you
2006-07-26 11:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by sweets_22193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and convince her to wait, if she insists then give her the package
2006-07-26 09:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by ZONGO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋