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He is 22, tells you he owns a house, yet his father and stepmother live in this house. He moves you in while they are on vacation. They come home and the stepmother is not happy. She wants to talk to both of you. But you tell her it isn't her house and to F--- Off and you don't need to read any F------ Deed to know the house belongs to the new BF. You keep using the F word and she throws you out of the house.

Would any of you girls out there do this?? And what do you guys think about a girl who behaves this way??

(This happened to me - I am the stepmother. The girl went on to marry my stepson after living with him for 5 months during which time he did not work. She stayed with him for a year during which time he committed grand larceny and ended up convicted in 2 courts (2 different counties). Took her a year and 1/2 to realize he had no ambition, no interest in working, was a slob and that most likely everything he had told her was a lie.)

2006-07-26 01:58:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

(She actually married him, called me on phone a couple of times to tell me I was a F------ B---- and a few other names. Thought I wanted to break them up - last thing I wanted to do. # 9 -You are right! They do deserve each other. I really wanted them to stay together. Just asked that they stay away from me and stop begging my husband for money. I make $45,000 per year and he only makes 13,000/yr - so I am the major supporter in our household.)

They are both age 24 1/2 now & still in college. It's the 8th one for him and I think she may have attended the same number. She finally earned an Associate's degree, but I now know that he will never graduate. Yet they continue to get student financial aid from state and federal government. I've never seen anything like it - you or I would have run out of financial aid long before now. Of course we are too honest. They lie and take their chances they won't be audited. So far, it has worked for them. My conscience would kill me if I did that.

2006-07-26 11:22:23 · update #1

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Meeting people over the internet is always a tricky thing. You never know who they really are because online they can tell you ANYTHING. Its hard to know what to believe from people on here. You have to be really good at reading people and even then its tricky and hard to be sure. I cant believe any girl would be that rude and disrespectful to their bf`s parents. Especially after just meeting them!! It`s bad enough to just move in while they are on vacation, without even meeting them or talking to them about it. Even if the house did belong to him, it`s just normal and common courtesy to talk to your roommates about moving someone new in. This girl sounds like a loser! And a total moron!! I would NEVER behave that way in front of my new boyfriends family. Then again, I wouldnt just move in with someone without seeing how his "roommates" would react. Especially if they happen to be his parents! Also, I would have suspected something was fishy if he tried to move me in while they were gone. Good for you for throwing her out!! She deserved it! And she deserved being with the loser that your step-son sounds like. They sound like 2 of a kind to me. If it took her a year and 1/2 to figure out he was a liar then she deserved to be lied to for that long. I can`t believe there are people like her out there!! What an idiot!! Sorry you had to have her in your life. At least she isn`t in your house anymore!!

2006-07-26 02:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 0 0

Im sorry this happened to you.Thats why myself i take whatever anyone tells me online with a grain of salt because most likley they are lying to make themselves look better.Your step son pulled this and the girl fell for this hook line and sinker.She probaly reacted this way because what she was told.He already lied to her about his owning the house so he may have lied to her about how you and the dad were.towards him.And because she cared for him or thought she did it was her way of standing up to you.Boy i bet she was surprised when she found out the truth.What people have to realize when you talk to peole on line they will lie or stretch the truth some because they doubt if u will ever actually meet in person to find out they were lies.People also need to be careful meeting people in person that they met online they may not only be liars but they can be murderers and rapists as well.Thankfully this girl finally see what a piece of work your step son is (sorry dont mean to offend) but maybe she will have learned from this mistake and move on with her life and dont trust what people tell you online.I wish you the best of luck to you

2006-07-26 02:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would believe nothing from someone I just met over the Internet. You certainly have had a horrible experience. I hope everyone reads this and can learn something from what you have been through. I wish you the best and hope that everything gets better for you.

2006-07-26 02:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0 0

i wouldnt believe him/her.

The net is a place of Horny Net Geeks and perverts. However the nice guys are all condemmed cof of the others.
My advice it take it easy, and learn as much as you can before doing anything with anyone on the net.

2006-07-26 02:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am not about to meet anyone from the internet in person and perhaps if he had convinced her its his house than I suppose she felt pretty macho, but yeah totally uncool glad you threw her to the curb.

2006-07-26 02:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0 0

First of all, how a guy treats his parents/relatives is a big indicator to his character. I would feel uncomfortable wtih the way that he spoke to you and my perception of him would change and not for the better.

2006-07-26 02:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 0 0

no cuz itz a lot less complicated to assert it on-line considering the fact that u dont could head as a lot as a lady. in authentic existence itz a lot hardere, i ought to tell u ur warm ceremony now, yet when i discussed u in authentic existence identity placed my head down like a lil biatch

2016-10-15 09:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

I wouldn't believe anything anyone told me on the internet. Sorry.

2006-07-26 02:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Imani 5 · 0 0

Not alot,He could tell u anything cause how would u find out if he was lying

2006-07-26 02:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sounds like she was dumb, n of low moral character. but ur stepson is also a peice of work.

2006-07-26 02:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0 0

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