How long does it take you to get oever someone you love deeply? When you've loved them for a long time? I believe it is worth going through the pain if you've been in love...do you agree?
2006-07-26 01:51:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh yes, it's worth it.
In my experience, one doesn't get over somebody they have deeply loved. Oh, a person can love again, and should (really), but a mark of the reality of the emotion is that you _always_ keep on caring about that person, no matter what they did to you. The pain remains in the past; but the love goes on. That does _not_ mean that you are allowed to cheat on your next partner, it just means that the heart's capacity to love is infinite, it is not filled up by one person only.
2006-07-26 01:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree. You should spend some time missing the person you deeply loved and who left. After a week or so It's time to move on. All the best of luck getting through this.
2006-07-26 01:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by maxie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question
How long??- I actually think you will neevr get over it really -Even if its only a shortish time -love is all consuming -I certainly know that. I have lost my real grestest love and yes I do believe the pain is worth it because the happiness, closeness, warmth and adoration that I felt was so wonderful.
Sorry if you are now in the position of missing someone - I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
2006-07-26 01:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf of 6 years ended our relationship a month ago,i`m heartbroken because he was my first love and i met him when i was only 18 at the moment i wish i`d never met him at all,i dont know when i`ll be totally over him as i`m still gonna have to try be civil to him as we have a son,i just hope that in the future i can look back with fondness for him and not hate him as much as i do at the moment.
2006-07-26 11:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I "thought" in was in love 3 yrs ago. And I'm glad in never turned out in the end but it took me a yr. and a half. To me, the pain is worth it if you felt right about it. My love w/ that person was never right through anyone's eyes, and a big mistake so it was definitely pain going through.
2006-07-26 01:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on if you have closure with that person. If you can say that you have done all you can/did all you could about a situation, it makes it easier to recover.
If you don't have closure, healing can take years. Don't push yourself to get over someone before you feel ready, that just doesn't work. There are no rules to healing, it is your own personal journey.
I hope this helps you out.
2006-07-26 02:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by xian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while. Just take a few days to mope about it and go out and have fun. The best way to get over it is to go out and have fun with the girls if not get a hobby like exercising. That way you will get in shape and look good and he will be like damn I should have stayed with her. Then you find yourself someone better than him. Just remember life does go on.
2006-07-26 01:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a loooong time. It took me 12 months (1 full year!) to get over a girl I loved and lost.
I'm married now, and I still think about her from time to time and I'm still not entirely 'over' her. It's been 6-7 years since she left and I've been with my wife for three yrs.
So there's your answer...
2006-07-26 02:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by crazyotto65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never get over Love, it is the strongest emotion possible.
what you do is change the way you feel for people and develop a different kind of love for another person.
Love Hurts, but also makes you feel on top of the world!
2006-07-26 02:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by Nick B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts sometimes like now, how long it will take to get over it,probly awhile but time heals all pain
2006-07-26 01:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋