I have a friend that i have been avoiding alot lately. He has just changed so much over the last few years and i have grown apart from him. He brings alot of drama along with him. He called me last night and left his address and wants me to write to him. Should i write to him and not mention or bring up the past or should i address the issue? Plzzz Help!
2006-07-26 01:46:56 · 18 answers · asked by BabyGirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do write to him, becoz the feeling of being evil to someone also haunts everybody. So be kind and dont try to mention the past unless it is necessary when you communicate with him more. Be careful and take care.
2006-07-26 01:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by zhish_blaster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write to him and address your issues. If he still wants to be friends go for it. Maybe he has grown up some. (Don't hold your breath on the growing up part). But maybe he isn't as mellow dramatic.
If he's still the same old blah, blah, blah write him back and tell him you have moved on and he should do the same.
Vlad really needs to get an imagination of his own.
2006-07-26 20:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Don't write. If he calls and questions you, just tell him you've been real busy and quickly hang up. If you get into a convo with this kind of person you will just become horrid gossip to the next person he talks to. Soon he will move on and become too distracted by himself to notice your not there. He might pop up again in 6months, but by then it won't bother you to listen to the drama, and in the end you'll both say you'll call- and both of you know that neither one of you will!
2006-07-26 08:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by ghostchaser.christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bring up the past. Just write him see what he has to say.
2006-07-26 09:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should mail him back. Sit together for a while and try to negotiate the things. Tell him that he is a good friend and only a friend. If he is sober enough, he would understand and would never come back.
2006-07-26 08:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by ravish_tipu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it real if this is still bothering you then its not in the past confront it, if you want to move on an you are willing to give it another try then please don't do this in a letter call him let him know how you feel and where your friendship stands at least be honest with yourself all the best :-)
2006-07-26 08:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him over the phone, tell him your feelings and just say you need some time to see what you want. write to him if YOU want. who knows in the future he may change back
2006-07-26 08:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't decide that for you, you have to make the decision yourself. You don't sound like you want to continue any kind of relationship with him, go with your gut and make a decision.
2006-07-26 08:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good to be open in all kinds of relationships, express your feeling clearly, or you may regret later
2006-07-26 08:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by sajid_icfai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just tell him how you feel about the whole thing than just keeping it to yourself or just dont reply to his messages . you can also tell your close friend to talk to him if u cant
2006-07-26 08:52:32 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋