2006-07-26 01:38:40 · 16 answers · asked by inlove 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If your breaking up, you may have to. But then you may want to get back together.
It is a shock to break away from something like this you want.
Take some time to talk to your friends and family for support to help your through the process of greeving. This act like a filling agent (PARTIALLY) because you no longer feel so alone.
That is what friends are for.
When your ready, you may want to find someone else. But this time learning a lesson from the last mate, you will realise that you should get to know a lot more before getting into bed with them. If you have children and you do not know a partener enough, there is a greater and greater likilyhood of having to split up WITH children disputes.
You need to be together for quite a few years to have children
2006-07-26 02:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont got near that person for some time. If you must, move to other places where you can't see that person anymore. You can't really-really erase that love feelin, but at least if that love is painful for you, it will gonna be a lot less painful. Another tips is to look for friends to support you, and keep yourself busy with cool or fun things. Improve your self esteem if you must.
2006-07-26 08:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by d4rk_w4t3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stop loving someone you are in love with? That's crazy.
2006-07-26 08:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by *~Princess~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do understand what you mean. It is highly impossible, coz your heart does not listen to your mind. Just try to do as your heart says, coz if you listen to your mind for whatever reason it might be, it wont help rather you might waste your time. But if it is a situation where you really have to stop, then be careful how you handle and cut the relationship gradually. Hope it helps.
2006-07-26 08:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by zhish_blaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take time to smell the coffee so to speak.
Bring her flowers show you care just stop!!! and love her!!!! but never stop loving her!!!! Have a lovable day:-)
2006-07-26 08:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can, and if you do you never really loved them to begin with. Love is so over used these days..... it's called infatuation.
2006-07-26 10:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by encore_theater_rox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never stop loving,love is beautiful,patience ALWAYS bears fruit.there is someone for you,once u meet u will know,may it's whom u love,take more time,but never stop loving,.
BEST OF LUCK.
2006-07-26 08:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know .but.... lemme tell u that sleeping with some other guy/girl is not the way. take care and God bless u and ur LOVE
2006-07-26 08:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by rock`n`Zee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any answers given on this wont help you. its in your head they are yet to create a device which can get into yoru memory bank and jsut erase the memory of that person. wow wouldn't that be great to have selective memory
2006-07-26 08:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by buzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not stop loving but can surely abstain from exhibiting your emotions.
2006-07-26 08:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by lahirisoumitra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋