I need a man. I need to be more attractive! I am a shy person and I do not really know how to get a guy. I have in the past but those didnt work out too well. So if anybody can help me with that please do!
2006-07-26 00:36:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all u can do is be yourself, i was shy at one point too with the ladies, but i realized you only live life once so you have to go out there and take chances. find a guy at school or work that you talk to occasionally and invite him out to the dinners or movies, just go out with the guy as friends and if things turn out good you'll go out on more dates. but u won't know what could happen unless you start trying.
2006-07-26 00:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Matt P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should work on that "I need a man" thing, needy people aren't very attractive. Second work on the "get a guy" not sure guys want to get got, and the ones that do aren't the ones you would want. I am most attracted to confident women, women that know they are sexy, but don't have a huge ego about it, it just is a part of who they are. So I'd say learn to love yourself, and then others can love you too.
2006-07-26 00:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be honest to yourself, make yourself to be whom you want to be and then a guy you want will come along. Different people have different choice. Like me I would really like a lady who challenges me! Attractive is not a major attribute and she should be creative and self initiative. Do you get it?
Make yourself better and dont do things that put men off like overexitedness,drinking,smoking coz a man will thing if i marry this one what happens to my children?????????????????????????????
Be resilient and smile more often but dont overdo it.
ok ok there are no rules just be yourself and improve on your self image. and most importantly make yourself like the guy you want, you will attract that guy to yourself.
2006-07-26 00:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Raineli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st and foremost :BE YOURSELF... alwayz hav a S M I L E on ur face
2nd... belive in urself
puttin on tons of make-up doesn make a person attractive... it's ultimately the inner qualities that u possess that decides how well u will gel wit a guy ...
step 3 : socialize... meet new people ... xpand ur contax
remember - ur aim shud not b to get a guy but to socialize moe & enjoy ur fnd's companionship ...
the rest will fall into place...
gud luck!:)
2006-07-26 00:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nas T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first and most important you need to build your self confidence.
No one shines brighter then a confident woman....You need to overcome your shyness by pushing it aside and let your hair down. Eye contact, very important part of any first impression...Practise these few things and I promise you, you will notice the difference in peoples reaction to you.
PS dress sexy but conservative.
2006-07-26 00:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel go buy a cute outfit from the mall with some make up then go talk 2 him
2006-07-26 00:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the wrong place. Go to match.com and find another desperate person.
2006-07-26 00:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to overcome your shyness first then u will get a man....then just flirt...if ihe likes u,its good
2006-07-26 00:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by rapstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be shy inside yourself but outside be sure even you think it's not write!!!
2006-07-26 00:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by rabbyt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself...and be positive.
And make sure the guy you get one day, is also 'himself'.
2006-07-26 00:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋