The "homewrecker" is usually one of the people inside the home. An affair is a symptom of a much larger set of issues; it is never "caused" by the person being taken advantage of and whom the "cheater" has fallen for...and pursued (esp. if the "cheater" is the man). Falling out of love is not a crime. Trying to be happy isn't either. Bitter much? Try some self-examination and introspection, and put your energy to better use to improve your own life and yourself.
2006-07-26 00:37:21
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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LOL... your only revenge would be to find an AWESOME person to share your life with and be HAPPY with them... that would definetly get revenge on the other person.... You moving on!
Oh wait, I just re-read your question... I guess the only way you can make things worse for the homewrecker is TRY to be the person you should have been to your mate, that's the biggest thing you could do ... but really, it you can't take it out all on the homewrecker... your mate obviously wasn't getting something from you to make him/her stray .... so your mate is also deserving of some of that revenge... so for that... see first answer LMAO
2006-07-26 00:39:44
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answered by nknicolek 4
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First things first, if you can't trust your mate, you have the wrong mate.
Next, it sounds to me like the person who had the affair with your mate is playing more havoc on you than you will be able to with them.
I once heard a saying, "Those who anger you, control you."
This is very true. You are giving this person all kinds of control over you. They are in your head, in your thoughts, taking time from your mind, your life, your happiness, your mental well being and any chance you have for a healthy relationship.
Trust me, revenge will not resolve your anger.
Seek true happiness and true tranquility.
Seek the kind of life you want to live.
(Here's a clue for you - it's not to be found in your current circumstance.)
Sorry that this is not the answer you are looking for, but as others have stated, the best revenge is your own happiness.
Peace and Love.
2006-07-26 01:04:53
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answered by Gonzo 4
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Sorry, I don't have a story to share -- but I would like to give you a suggestion. Sometimes, the best thing to do is to let the other person have what they think they want -- your spouse. In most cases, it doesn't work out -- and that is the ultimate revenge. You have to be strong enough to let your marriage go, but in the long run, you will come out as the stronger person.
2006-07-26 00:40:09
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answered by Ifeelyourpain 4
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Why was the "other person" there in the first place ?? Did you have something to do with your partner seeking greener pastures ? Why try in make the person's life miserable ? Rather reconcile, what happened, happened hey. If you can rescue your marriage do so, move on and forget about revenge it only brings more misery in the long run.
2006-07-26 00:39:46
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answered by Nomad 2
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a lot hurry to throw the stones, some are! So, how come even as Jesus suggested : "might want to those who've under no circumstances sinned throw the first stone" (at Magdalena) , the textual content states: all of them went away, starting up WITH THE ELDERS. Faithfulness is way, a lot, a lot more effective than only no longer having a marital affair (or 2 or more effective). Faithfulness is to proceed to be dependable even with the united statesand downs of existence, it truly is to bear with one's spouse's shortcomings, conduct, idiosyncrasies and bigger. without NAGGING! I honestly were gazing virtuous companions without more effective-marital affairs insulting one yet another, or actually unfavorable one yet another. "there is not any sufficient like to pass round" so went the song. more effective-marital affairs take position even as the companions in a wedding ceremony aren't from now on guided, aren't from now on matched properly, aren't from now on meant for another. It ability that the marriage itself ought to no longer have taken position. It ability that society did not fairly inspire human beings around the more youthful human beings to speak overtly about marriage, about posterity, about lineage, about some thing that fairly bargains with existence in a higher image than only a wedding ceremony and lust. It means that oldsters often times are only too chuffed to work out their offspring OFF, away, instead of fairly following their progression and telling them about existence. It means that they too had no theory of a existence that ought to objective at being a carry close piece, an artwork artwork. So companions improve far flung from their spouse/husband instead of them both starting to be jointly. yet there is desire: after a marital affair, often, companions reunite and ensure lower back that they are meant for another, on a more effective wide wakeful way. Or they ensure that the farce is over and they go their way. some very bright man or woman advised me lately: "if one isn't pleased with one's spouse, how can one be at liberty with any body else?" actual, often times marital affairs take position because one spouse isn't comfortable with oneself. interior the Bible, more effective-marital affairs are considered a sin. So is it to covet yet another man or woman no matter if no affair ever takes position! i'd be bold and say that typically a sparkling form of power is significant and healthy to be insufflated in a relation which otherwise isn't doing properly. yet this shows weak prognostic of any genuine fix. Marriage is a real project.
2016-11-26 00:34:13
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answered by giraldo 4
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okay, first of all i don't think you should worry about revenge too much. i think you need to worry about yourself. don't get me wrong, i completely understand what you are going through; but holding in resentful and angry thoughts and actions isn't gonna make it better. only worse. and i think you need to realize that this isn't just the homewrecker's fault. unless your spouse was literally raped by them; which i doubt was the case. how about you stop worrying about how to make other lives miserable and try to get on with yours so you can be happy.
2006-07-26 00:41:06
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answered by Arianne 2
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I once got revenge on an ex boyfriend by placing a fish under his waterbed mattress (she moved in with him when I moved out) didn't upset their relationship but I sure felt better.
2006-07-26 06:29:02
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answered by Kim 1
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y do u want to make the 'other person' life miserable, it ur mistake also that u didn't take care of ur partner and let him stray, if u have fulfill his needs at proper time, may be u would not have been asking this question, so first question urself, was it not ur mistake to not take care of ur partner needs in first place and didnt' took the hints at right time
2006-07-26 00:42:30
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answered by cc20 2
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sign them up for all the lawn care providers that you can
go to a mag store and get all thoes little "sign me up" cards and put there name on all of them(400+)
have there car(s) tow'ed away
put out "a party at this address" notices
have there mail help or redirected to a very long time
2006-07-26 00:41:25
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answered by timestamps 6
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