2006-07-26 00:32:25 · 7 answers · asked by jamie w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't need help, go for it!!!
2006-07-26 00:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Love is TRUE LOVE... then age is no biggie...
My true love and I are 12 years apart in age and we were in love when I was 16 and he was 28. It's been 12 years and we are still in love. When I was younger, yes everyone seen it as a problem, but since I am older now (and so is he heehee) ppl don't look at us like they did back then, we makem jokes about it though and have fun with it... but truely... you could very well be 4 years apart from someone around your own age and be very unhappy and him not take care of you... so go with what your HEART is telling you.... if he is everything you have wanted, he provides for you and Loves you as much as you have ever been loved and your happy..... AGE does NOT matter.....
Good Luck to you 2!!
2006-07-26 07:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by nknicolek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on, its time to show you meant it when you said that in true love there are no barriers. You may be pleasantly surprised that older people have more to offer and are often more secure individuals. Younger they are the less, they know about life. You can find more erotic experiences with the young, but your peace only comes with a settled human being, usually an older person. He/she can show more about yourself than most young people. Give it a try. Have a longer courtship if necessary to help you decide. Most young people are closed about dating older people. Most young don't also know that loving an older person is a totally different experience. A great eye opener. Don't be surprised if after that it may be he/she who may dump you but you could be the one insanely in love with him. If you end up marrying the older one, you may have taken a short cut to happiness. You will not have had to put up with the mistakes of young who are still trying to find their way. Have you heard the line - "Youth is wasted on the young"?
So no need to panic. You're in good hands. You know you can still say No too, to him in time, if you feel that he/ she is not right for you. But then you will be saying No, not because of Age but because of incompatibility. Hmm You will already be sounding mature yourself if that happens. Maybe you have to thank him for that at least. And I know for a fact that you will never forget him/her.
2006-07-26 10:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Greymatter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not a barrier even if your true love is 28 years senior than you. As long as both of you love each other, I think it's ok. Dun let age be the barrier between both of you. once you lost your true love, you will live to regret it. Cherish him
2006-07-26 11:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 42 and my love is now 50. What kind of help do YOU need? You guys are still young! My parents are 15 years apart in age and they've been married for 43 years.
2006-07-26 07:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kinda help do you need? I see no problem with that. You can't be older neither your true love be younger. Just go for it as long as you both can understand each other. Cheers.
2006-08-03 00:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by ladypengu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing unusual, very normal type. Go for it, if you think is the correct man for you. Don't miss it , or else you will regret.
2006-07-26 08:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋