Are all married women living in the fantasy that they are the only woman in the world that would ever be able to make their husband happy? Should a man be able to look at other women and wish that you were like them, or that you had their traits? If your husband had a magic wand, would you be happy if he used it to turn you into his 'ideal' woman? That would mean that his ideal woman isn't you.. and that he married you because.. why?
I am married. I am one of those women living in a fantasy where I think that I am the only woman that will ever be able to make my husband happy.. I believe that he chose me BECAUSE I am the only woman that will ever make him happy.. what about all of you?
The only reason I'm asking this question is because I was reading the answers to another question and one of them pissed me off.. I just wanted to know if I was the only one who felt the same way.
2006-07-26 00:28:26 · 11 answers · asked by Imani 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Definately.. there are SOME but not many like you. I know i am my mans perfect woman. If he had a magic wand, he really wouldnt change a thing about me. I would.. he wouldn't.
Without sounding all hippy, you really are one of the lucky ones as am I. Its not always a fantasy. Although some may be wrong in thinking this, it doesn't mean every woman is. My man is quite rightly offended when men/women say that all men are the same.. He isn't. I would actively encourage him to check out other women in whatever way he wished if he wanted to but he could think of nothing worse. He spent too long with the wrong ones and is thankful every day for finally finding me. I'm not fantasizing about that.. it is true. It took him a long time to get it through my thick head but I believe him. Yes I am the only woman on earth that can make him happy.
2006-07-26 00:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Certainly there is more than one woman in the world that can make him happy.....just the same as there are more than one man in the world that can make you happy......but that is not whats important. You know your man better than any woman. You know what he likes, and what he doesn't like. You two are no longer two, but one flesh...two halves made whole. No other woman can ever be his other half, because he already has one. He is complete now.
Live your marriage everyday with this question, "If he had a chance to do it all over again, and pick a wife, would he choose me?"
Serve you husband as you would serve God. You will be irreplaceable in his life, I guarantee it.
Blessings on your marriage.
2006-07-26 02:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a world of millions and millions of people spread across the globe, what would be the odds that I am the *only* woman on the planet that could make my husband happy and he just happened to find me?
I'm sure there are other women that could also make him happy, but I can't see how anyone could love him more than I do. I'd just like to think that after finding me, loving me and marrying me, he isn't looking for them anymore :)
2006-07-26 00:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our husbands picked us for a reason. They chose most of us for life, those who truly believe in the concept of marriage anyhow. I don't care about where he looks or what he might say about someone else, we're each others life partner. I make comments about other men and women, too, but because we are strong together, they're just comments. Neither of us are going anywhere. We do what we can to support, challenge, better the other. Both partners are responsible for keeping the other happy. There are those of us out here that believe in our relationships.
2006-07-26 00:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few people ever find their "ideal" spouse....it could be something as simple as a preference in eye color...if you and your husband have EVER had a fight, then you are not "ideal." Yes, another woman could make my husband happy (just as another man could make me happy), but it would be different "kind" of happy. There are things that each of us do that the other doesn't neccessarily like. Sometimes he gets on my last nerve...that does not mean that he doesn't make me happy OVERALL....and vice versa.
2006-07-26 00:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to think that i am the woman in my husbands life. i feel that i am. but, i also realize that there are a million other females out there that are nicer looking than me. and lets face it, maybe even nicer and smarter than me. i know that he looks at other women, but i know that he loves me. he comes home with me. when he has a problem it's me he wants to help him solve it. when something good happens, its me he cant wait to share it with.
i know that i make him happy, and i also know i can make him miserable sometimes, but that is what a marriage is about. honesty, and trust. he trust me to be honest to him in good and bad times. he loves me.
my fantasy world... I am the only woman my husband desires. my reality world... I am that only woman my husband loves.
thanks for the question, gets me thinking.
2006-07-26 00:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that there are many women that would make my husband happy. But he only has eyes for me. And I know him better than any other women would. We made a commitment to each other and to God. That goes beyond our own personal satisfaction.
2006-07-26 00:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think so....There will always be some element he wished you had like some other woman, but if he truly loves you then he would love you as you are, not as you can be...Try asking your husband this question and see the response, you will probably be shocked...
2006-07-26 00:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are never satisfied
2006-07-26 00:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is my wife is the only one that can make me happy, others may make me smile,but my wife is the only one that can please me
2006-07-26 12:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋