I really like him but he has a girlfriend and My friend said if I go out w/ him she will never talk to me again. I like him more than any boy. He is also the ONLY boy I like. He acts like he likes me. What do I do?
2006-07-26 00:28:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She knows all of my secrets if we stop being friends she will tell everyone even my mom and trust me THAT IS A BAAAAAD THING!!!
2006-07-26 00:33:10 · update #1
SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM
2006-07-26 00:57:15 · update #2
Your friendship is more important than a guy, any guy, ever: and always will be.
Men are like a bus, if you miss one, there will be another in ten minutes.
Honestly, do not date your friend's ex. That is betrayal of a friendship.I've been there and done that. It sounds like your friend may not be much of a friend, (exposing your secrets is playing dirty) and I can't see where you have the right to be mad that they don't want you to date her ex. Sorry sweetie, I know the heart wants what the heart wants, but this is a bad thing that can only end badly.
I see where other people are telling you to do this, to go for it, all I can say is listen to someone who has been there, and watch Jerry Springer, (this could fit in an episode with smooth fluidity), and then make a choice.
Good luck finding someone else...
2006-07-26 00:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm confused when you said he has a gf. is his gf your best friend or someone else? if he already has a gf then i don't recommend you going for him. it's just wrong and a waste of time. however, if he doesn't have a gf and the only thing stopping you from going for this guy is the fact that your best friend still has feelings for him then i would recommend you still going for him ONLY if he likes you back. if he doesn't then there's no point of both you guys fighting for him especially if he has another gf. if he does like you back then i say stick with him. i mean your best friend can't control his or your feelings. if he doesn't like you at all then just give up. you don't want to lose a best friend over a guy that doesn't even like you back or as a gf. do consider how your best friend feels though. you wouldn't want her to be going out with your ex or bf but ONLY if it's both ways
2006-07-26 07:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by dorkydork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you have to consider your best friend's feelings about this. besides the guy is your best friend's ex, so she may still have some feelings for this guy. if you really value your friendship with your best friend, then if she told you that it's not ok to date her ex, then maybe it's not ok. she may be also helping you not to make a mistake, she may know that he might be a jerk & wouldn't want you to get hurt. besides, the guy has a gf now right? so why don't you give your best friend & yourself sometime. you might find someone better, then you don't have to jeopardize your friendship with your best friend.
2006-07-26 07:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by kevkatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, but if you value your friendship I wouldn't....
Guys come and go, but friends are hard to find. But like the other guy said, if your younger than say 15 or 16. Go for it and knock your self out !
2006-07-26 07:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your "friend" then she should support you. But by just the way you wrote this Q, sounds like your only 13 at most. So you're young...have fun!
2006-07-26 07:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, he is only a boy friend & not your husband. So, you need not worry so much about others.
2006-07-26 07:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will get over it.
2006-07-26 07:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋