my boyfreiend 3 years wants to have a 3some should i?

Answer 1

I think mentioning to him that you know the perfect guy is a good idea!

No, really, if it's something you wanna do, fine. But if you are only questioning it because it is his idea and you don't know if you want to or not, DON'T! He is greedy and selfish, and if you do it you might regret it if you are unsure about it in the first place. Plus, I don't know about you, but if I did that, I would constantly be wondering if he is out hooking up with the other chick without you. I don't think I'd be able to trust him after doing that. There's also the fact that if you participate, chances are he's going to pay more attention to the other girl, and you will get jealous and regret it. Also, if you do it once, he's gonna want you to do it again. Trust me! My ex told me he had a 3some twice in one of his relationships, and that didn't stop him from asking me to do the same! I never did and would never even consider it, and I think it was greedy of him to have had the opportunity to have that experience already, and still want it again. Plus, since we broke up, I've heard that he did finally get a 3some with a new girlfriend and some other girl, and his new girlfriend got jealous cuz he paid more attention to the other girl.

So all in all, it's up to you, but if you have ANY doubts, DON'T do it! And if your boyfriend has any respect for you, he will take no for an answer if you choose that, and not keep bugging you about it!

Answer 2

There are alot of woman and men that try different things in there relationship, Some married couples are called swingers they have many different partners and they have three somes but honey that is not a relationship or a marriage. If your boyfriend wants to do that find out why (alot of guys have this fancy of doing this) if that was something you wanted to do you would not be asking this question or for advise. A true relationship is based on a couple you and him not you and him and another sex partner my answer to u is no i would not do it.

Answer 3

If you love him and value you're relationship with him, then don't do it. What if he or you end up wanting the third person more than each other? Think it through, I've seen many a relationship end over threesomes.

Answer 4

What, your boyfriend is only 3 years? What's he doing having a girlfriend so young?
Oh, and stop asking such stupid questions, no one can answer that for you. If your boyfriend wants to have a threesome, then you need a new boyfriend.

Answer 5

Tell him you want to have a 3some with a Bisexual Guy.

Answer 6

No you should not participate in the activity unless you want to do it. You need to feel comfortable with your partner to do that. If he wants to do something like that, then that is a sign that he is not all that faithful to you, he may just to do this to have sex with another girl. I mean would he like it if you asked him to have sex with you and another guy?

Answer 7

i say do it, its a good experence but have an outher guy like his best frinend or something and look cute its not like u have sex every day.

also have the outher guy were a condom just incase.

or if u want have a 4 sum have 2guys and 2 girls. u your bf and anouther boy and anouther girl

Answer 8

Ask him to invite his best male friend to have the 3 some & see how he reacts.

Answer 9

NOOOO!!!! don't make that mistake especially if it's with another girl because he'll leave you for that girl or just want to secretley do it with someone else and not tell you bluntly

Answer 10

the question is to u is what should u do because if i was in ur shoes i wouldn't because im a type of person who like to do it with one on one thing so i can do everything to that person. So don't do it.