This all true. I'm married and have a kid, i married two years ago. I loved my husband from my whole heart, but these days he is becoming different. He becoming harsh to me, he start drinking, chewing chat... and wants to hit me, yell at me.... even he asked me our house and after i left he wanted me to back. Mean while i met with someone else, from the first sight i fell in love, Oh God i really fall in love with him, he loves me too. I know this is true, and at the same time i'm afraid of God. Please tell me what to do. I decided to divorce my husband, and take my son with me.
2006-07-25 23:02:14 · 9 answers · asked by Melat S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
God wants us to be happy. He is a good God and he wants the best for you. Your husband is a mean drunk, and eventually he will hurt you and your children. Do you think God wants your children to suffer yet alone you at the hands of an abusive husband. Run---don't walk----to your nearest woman's shelter. I had one Friend killed by her abusive husband. Later the in-laws wanted the children. This man doesn't want to Love you--he wants to control you, manipulate you and make your life miserable. No woman should take this kind of abuse. You be afraid for your children. God gave you these precious gifts to take care of. Wait on the boyfriend until you get a divorce, but get out of that marriage now or you may be miserable the rest of your life or you may not have a life. God will support you, so leave.
2006-07-25 23:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by duelpers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop. Close your eyes. Take some deep breathes. Think about how you will feel when the divorce is over and you are with the man you love. Do you feel relief? Then you are probably doing the right thing. Pray to God. We all do wrong. He forgives murderers, so chances are good he's going to forgive your wrongdoing.
2006-07-26 06:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way you have written, i think your husband had doubt regarding your character, or you might have started seeing someone else that you love now, otherwise your marrige duration was too short for your husband to act that way, and if you are guilty you should be afraid of god, if not there is nothing to be afraid of.
2006-07-26 06:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by khepo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has the right to live their life as they want to and not be treated like crap for know one as you have to make the best for your son. You should put your son first before any man but if he likes this one go for it or you will never know and might regret it later in life. So all the best in which decision you make and follow your heart it will lead you in right direction.
2006-07-26 08:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by debbie_dixon19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does ur husband's behaviour changed suddenly or it was the way he is been treating u since u r married.i believe there might be something which is bothering him & getting reflected in his behaviour.try to understand the reason behind this & give a try to this.Because, the future of ur child is more important & everything depends upon ur decision.
2006-07-26 06:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by sduhbls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, no one can tell you what to do. you have to do decide that yourself. but i can tell you this......i was in bed, crying, praying to god for my husband to come back safe to me and our two boys from Iraq four hours after i dropped him off at the airport. and in the meanwhile he was screwing another woman. so, of course i cried, asked why, wondered if god would disown me as one of his children if i would ever divorce; just like everyone has said he would. but my point is, it's not true. god will love you through your mistakes, your lessons learned, and your entire life. have you ever thought that maybe this is a sign from god telling you to get out while you can, before it gets worse. in my case i was so set on working on my marriage through what you are going through and even more, but i think that god gave my stubborn *** a sign to really jolt me and wake me up. to show me what i really need to do, leave.....
honey, look at it this way. you have a child...do you want your child growing up thinking that they have to settle for less than they deserve or want in a relationship because it's the right thing to do, or learning from your man what love is??? it sounds to me like your man has not even one clue what love is. and you know what all i can say is go for it girl. honestly, i'm glad to hear that you decided to divorce him. put him behind you and move on. trust me, there is bigger and better men out there
2006-07-26 07:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by Arianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have one life you have to make the best of it whatever makes you happy, you should go for.No one deserves to be treated like crap, and always put your son first before any man.
2006-07-26 06:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by princess20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you should not fear anybody in this situation....no where its said that you should be with a man who does'nt love n respect you n your feelings...........you have the right to think about your future n be with the one who loves n respects you......but pls be sure that this new guy is aware of all n its not pity for you that u think is love.......clear things before you get into this....and whereas your husband is concerned you have all the right to part ways........
2006-07-26 06:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you already have your answers, just make sure you do it fast and quick .
And make sure you dont allow yourself to be treated by that way again in your life again that should his lasting 'gift' to you.
2006-07-26 06:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋