OK im 13 and I want a baby BADLY!!!!!?

Question

I have with my bf for a few months now he dont want a baby but I do I told him im on b/c to trick him into cummin in me so i could get pregnant. i want a baby so bad i can take care of my baby i know it i could be pregnant now thats why im askin a question im 4 days late i havent took a test yet is it too soon to test ?

Ok well i took 3 tests all positive so i guess im pregnant im soo happy and i talked to the guy and he said hes happy and were gonna stay together i told my mom and i have an appoitment for next month im soooooo happy

Answer 1

WOW thats crazy but no its not too soon to test u should get a positive test result if u are. but if you want a baby that bad get with a guy who wants it to dont trick him but good luck sweetie

Answer 2

i must say i pretty much agree with everyone else on this one,you are too young,you have all you're life ahead of you,once you have a baby you cannot just let anyone look after it.depending on what kind of test you get,you may just get a positive result then again if you're (hcg) levels arent high enough then you wouldnt,you could always take one at you're doctors and if its negative re do it a week later or so.me and my boyfriend have been trying for a month now,i took a hpt last week and that showed positive,BUT i did one yesterday with the doctors and that came back negative,i am having all the symptoms and i am 2 weeks late for my period, the nurse also said there is a very bigchance that i am.i have just done a blood test today,hopefully fingers crossed i will be having a baby,i dont want to be like the rest of my friends,drinking all the time,amongst other things!!!but i know that i am ready despite what anyone may say or think,and the best about it my boyfriend wants this just the same as i do.i wish you good luck anyway but just remember you're pretty much giving you're life up for someone elses,if you're willing to do that at 13 then go for it and like i said before ( good luck) x

Answer 3

ok honey i know u want a baby and dont want to hear this, but i must tell u the truth, u are too young and y would u want a baby with some guy thats doesnt want one, he will just leave u and u will be alone, and its hard to have a baby, financially, and mentally, u think u should wait until u are 18 and when u find the right person to ahve it with, not someone that is just going to use u for sex, u have ur whole life to have kids ahead of u. also if u arent pregnant u should get on birth control until u are ready for a baby. i thibnk ur mind is just playing with u making ur period late, but if it doesnt come in another 3 days u can test, i wish u luck

Answer 4

I don't think you're for real, but if you are, you really don't know what you're talking about. REALLY. Believe me. Stop the nonsense. You know nothing about life. Wait until you really know, and you'll realize how stupid you were at 13. You can not take care of a baby right now, even if you are sure you do. The boyfriend doesn't want it, so the hell of the support you're going to have. Taking care of it by yourself is going to be the hardest thing you'll ever have to do. If you're already pregnant, seek support. You'll need it. Having a baby is not a child's game. And you're a child, inmature and ignorant. STOP THE NONSENSE NOW!!!!!

Answer 5

OMG! Y do u want a baby?!?

13 is waaaay to young.. and it is not fun being a teen mother.. you have to go to school, and do homework, etc. Concider having a baby doll... Or a Puppy... Or ask a parent/guardian about adoption... If you really want to get pregnant more than anything in this world, you might wanna talk to your school counsilor.. Some advice from a 12-year-old! =]

Answer 6

i am going to do something i dont do often , i am going to be mean !
you are very stupid . not just that you are very selfish . you dont know what you are trying to put your body through , not to mention the baby and your parents . once the newness of the baby wears off you will resent the baby . yes they are cute and cuddly , but there is the flip side of the coin . they need to eat when they are ready , not when you get around to it , they need changed , taken to doctor appts , they need attention 24/7 .
also at your age , if you become pregnant children services may decide to get involved as they do in many states when a child under 16 gets "knocked up " at which point your parents may find themselves in court they can lose custody of you , and they can take your baby . this is fact as i have seen it happen . if they take custody of you , you will become a ward of the state , placed in foster care and trust me that is no picnic . more than likely your baby will be placed in a different foster care or adopted out .
also keep in mind that just because you want a baby , not all children are born perfect . just because you are young doesnt mean anything when it comes to reproducing . are you prepared to take care of a less than perfect child ? one that has special needs ? i have 2 children who have special needs , i do not go out with my fiance except maybe once every 4-6 months if that . i dont mind , but i am also 29 years old . at 13 are you ready to have all your friends drop you out of their lives ? parents wont want their kids hanging out with a girl who is easy ! just being honest ! not only that your friends will want to hang out with people who have time to go hang out . at first they may be amused with hearing about little junior , then it gets tiring of hearing how many times junior pooped today or what he did . even as an adult and having friends with out kids this happens . friends with out kids slip away .
tricking someone into "knocking you up " shows how irresponsible you are and how immature you are . grow up , finish school , do something with your life , then find the right man , settle down and have kids . before you become a walking STD trying to get knocked up by anyone and everyone who will drop their zipper for you .
you are the kind of girl i warn my oldest son about

Answer 7

U ARE THE BABY !!!!!! u've not just jeopardised your relationship with your bf by lying to him , you've also gotten yourself into a loop. if you really end up being pregnant , do u realize it's going to bring abt a lot of changes and sacrifices ! being a mom at 13 is not cool and let's not forget far from being easy or perfect .

Answer 8

well at 13 my lil sis wanted a baby and the guy didnt and she got wat she wanted now shes 15 with a 8 month old baby and the guy left her shes doing it by her self shes a great mom dont give me wrong but if your willing to give up ur teenage years for a baby and going to do everything you can for that child then ok but take a test and let us know girl

Answer 9

LITTLE SISTER ; Be careful what you wish for cause you just might get it. Your boyfriend is right to not want to destroy his teen years cause when they are gone they are gone and those are times you Cherish when you can still make some dumb miner choices and they are fixable but to add another mouth to feed,clothe ,take to doctor and many more things, that's a forever choice that is out of your control. wait another 10 to 12 years you will thank yourself if you do .

Answer 10

wait!!!!!! i'm 24 and my husband and i have a five month old son. it is very challenging work. i know it looks like its all fun and easy to care for a baby, but it's not. yeah, it is fun sometimes, but it's also hard. like, what do you do when he's crying and you can't figure out why? if you're already pregnant, there's nothing you can do about it, so good luck and give the baby all the love you can. if you're not, please wait until you are married!!!!!!

Answer 11

I really hope you are not pregnant. You need counseling!

Just enjoy being a kid and wait until you can support a child (ie. after you have a diploma and a full-time job!) All you are doing, besides being stupid, is causing financial and mental strain on your parents. You are not even old enough to have a job!

Keep you panties on for God's sake!