he is still happy but i am not,,,,its just the same and i would like to add a bit more spice
2006-07-25 22:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by janpet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hi, u can add spice inmany ways
1. wear something hot, unsual, or different from the daily routine,
2. Setup a romantic dinner for him.
3. meet himout side like ablind date and start over again
4. have sex in open, like roof, or in thegarden, it createslots of excitment
5, have some thing in car, like oral sex,
6 have sex at place where there are chances of u getting caught by some one, i don't say that u get caught, but like in ur parents bedroom, it creates a great high
7, try aromatic candles
8, try a hotel room, or sex in bathtub
9. try it on sofa, or on the dinning table, in a new position, like doggy style, sometime it helps a lot
10, try seducing him since morning by sending him, erotic messages or mails and in the evening he will be in bed with u without even athought
11, try putting temproray tattoos on ur body and then let him wash it off
12 try taking off each other clothes without using ur hands
i think that would be enough for u to try on talk to u later do tell me the results
2006-07-26 01:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by cc20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sex life always get boring after a certain period of time. I presume you are a married woman. To add more spice into your sex life, both of you need to experiment with sex. Try using sex toys for a change. Create a romantic environment. Shower together with your other half and give each other a good rub. Try some kinky sex. Etc etc.
2006-07-26 05:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your the freaky type put in some crazy yet hot outfits or play around with a bunch of differnt sex toys and alyaz remember never base your whole relashonship on sex maby you shouldnt do it so much that way you wont get tired of it so easily once ev 3 day is a good way of if ur someon who cant handel that pic a certain day 4 it
2006-07-26 05:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he cares about you he should be trying to please you. When sex is onesided then its selfish and your just being used. Tell him you want to try new things and try something you normally wouldnt do. But if it continues to bore you, maybe you need someone new. Try to look into stuff you are willing to incorporate in your sex life.
2006-07-26 05:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give it a go spice it up. If he refuses then dump him
2006-07-26 06:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? If yes, then consult somebody you can trust: a psychologist, sex therapist, counsellor, or a friend. If not, then go away.
2006-07-26 05:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dr N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happenes. we get bored with our routine.
just break the routine and change it so that it becomes exciting again.
2006-07-26 06:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋