And you're too shy/nervous to talk to them about it face to face, would it be okay to leave them a note to read explaining the issue you want to address?
2006-07-25 22:35:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is great merit in writing a letter to someone you love and care about; if it is too difficult to discuss it with them in person. Be as specific and detailed in your information, thoughts and feelings about it, to avoid later confusion. Once it is written, you can't take it back. The real plus to this is you won't get side-tracked, they can't interrupt you or talk back...and it gives them time to think about it...and will lead to a better understanding.
2006-07-25 22:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are to shy to address this issue face to face with your spouse than you can also add that to the letter. You should have no problems telling your spouse anythig... I think maybe some professional help may be in store here. Or is it that you are scared? Again though, you still should be able to go to your spouse with this. My wife is my best friend and has had my back no matter what the problem.. Good Luck
2006-07-25 22:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to them face to face. You are married after all, and there should be some degree of trust between you.
If you leave a note, the other person might well think you are being rude, and trying to chicken out of a potentially difficult situation.
2006-07-25 22:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont particularly understand if i had a solid dating with my spouce of asking. I only pay attention to the spouce than i'd ask approximately what i choose. lots of the time, he would understand what i needs. i dont particularly would desire to ask for it..it ought to could be a healthful dating or a bad one. all i understand my spouce walk out on me for some reason that he needs. he very almost have been given himseft killed over it. that's no longer a solid one.
2016-12-10 15:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by bornhoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what your problem is. if you are a real gentleman, take your wife to some beautiful spots or hillstations or it can be a movie or any nice programmes and keep talking to her in a very friendly way. in the course of your conversation, you may putforth your views or opinions as well which is hurting you, be broad enough to listen to her too, as she may have her own problems. tackle it smoothly, how can you be shy or nervous, if you are a married person, come on, be a sportive and open up, that is great, you are relieved and it is your joy.
2006-07-25 22:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by shankari n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every one communicates the same way. Even though you are married it is fine to write a letter or a note. Who ever you are married to should be patient enough to understand that is the way that you deal with things.
2006-07-25 22:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes it's not easy talking face to face even though it is for the best. My lady and I sometimes will approach a subject with email... Making it easier to get the ball rolling.
2006-07-25 22:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leaving a note is fine,but eventually the note itself needs to be discussed as well as the contents of the note...but! you may have created a fun filled way of communication since ideally we communicate better when we put our thougths on paper.never know until you try.
2006-07-25 22:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by terry j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do! Atleast this way you are getting it out and planting a seed to have the talk
2006-07-25 22:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've just sent a message to my husband that he is sucks!!!
I am another poor woman in the city lost in the cyberworld hungry for SEX and LOVE...
2006-07-25 22:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by Borchap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋