He's not calling for a few days but know he will. it has been like that before. I am glad he is not since I can get on with my life. Whenever he feels that I am back on my feet, he starts calling, stalking, convincing... I it is impossible to look at somethning and not to see him, he is always arround. Spends hours in the front of my place, calls, wherever I go - follows. I loved this man and in the beginning all those calls and attention I even liked but at some point became burden and frightening at times. As for his marriage, he asked me a lot of times to go and be with him but I don't want to be the reason of someones divorce. He should divorce his wife without me being involved. I tried breaking up many times but since he is always arround, at some point he would approach when I'm really weak towards him and the contact is made! I know it is wrong and want to get out but is difficult when he's always arround. He says we are the future and will never give up on us. ???
2006-07-25 21:58:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Run the heck away from this guy!! As far as you can and as fast as you can. Go!! now!!!
2006-07-25 22:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move if you can. Start to document all the times that he calls, shows up, or emails. If he sends any emails, email him back that you do not want to see him and to stay away from you. Print the emails out and save them. If you have wittnesses have them write a little letter about what they saw. Then go to the police station and file for a protection order. You need one if you feel frightened. I was in a bad relationship for almost two years. One year was spent just getting out of it. I even worked in the same building as him. People would say that he would hang out outside our lunch room and listen to what we were talking about. He poped out of the woods at 5am on a bike in the parking lot once just to say hi. It was very very scary. A month before I got married to my husband I had to file for a PO because he would not stay away. My boss and security had to find out and his boss. But you know what? I felt so much better (still a little nervous) that if something happened to me they would know who did it. It is not your fault this man won't move on. Just make it clear several times that he needs to stay away or you will do this.
2006-07-25 22:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called stalking...and it is unacceptable! Not to mention that he's a married man!!! Get a restraining order & tell him flat out that you want no more calls from him, he is not to follow you, no contact whatsoever or else you WILL have him arrested for harrassment. He will stop or else he will have to explain this to his wife! Be tough. Get as far away from him as possible...this is a sick man.
2006-07-26 00:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are getting a restraining order against him, you have to break this off or he will end up killing you.
2006-07-25 22:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋