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Question

i have 3 best friends. out of the three, i've known 1 for 12 yrs, 1 for 4 yrs and 1 for..eh..many yrs but we spent most of it hating each other. and now we're best friends. lets name her A.
we're really close now though..she tells me alot and i know her inside out.
the thing is that sometimes she juss STOPS talking. she ignores me.
i dont get it?
what cud be the reason?

Answer 1

Ask her, she may not even know that she is doing it. Some people just have a naturally selfish personality. That doesn't make them a selfish person, they just sometimes do selfish things with out knowing it. So call her on it. If you are really that close, she'll appreciate your straight forwardness.

Answer 2

Don't worry about it. She's just having a moment - you know, moment to just be silent and alone in her thoughts. Actually, I go thru the same moments too. Most often than not, I talk a lot. My best friend (who happens to be my colleague and roomie) and I just don't run out of topics to talk and laugh about. But there are certain days that I don't talk much or even stay silent for almost the whole day. I only speak when spoken to. I even put on my earphones and just listen to the music in order to blot out my surroundings. Normally, those are the times I feel down or I have a lot going on in my mind.

My best friend knows it when I'm in this mood. She just lets me be. She knows it has nothing to do with her and that I just want my lone time. When I get back to my usual perky self, that's when she tries to talk to me about it, that is IF she sensed that the reason for the silence was a problem. Other than that, she just lets me be and I really appreciate her more for that. Perhaps, you can practice the same way with your friend.

Answer 3

Nothing is wrong, may be you looking for too much of their time
sometimes people want to be alone, I think you have too many free time, get busy do things around the house and stop wasting time with friends

Answer 4

um do you mean during the conversation she stops talking and ignores you?? that's weird. I knew a girl who was a friend of one of my friends. Except she was only her friend sometimes, and only her friend when no one else was around. She acted like she was embarrassed to have her as a friend. She would actually ignore her if she saw her in public.

Answer 5

Sorry to examine this, it is terrible. identity say it is greater of a sexual assult than rape, yet nevertheless very extreme and should not be skipped over, in case you understand his call and so on you ought to completely get him charged for assult, decide for it, getting justice will enable you to forget it. Dont keep it bottled up, will consume away at you, do what you may approximately it. solid success

Answer 6

One possibility is Attention Deficit disorder, I find myself doing the same thing around my family although I haven't been positively diagnosed with the disorder. It's difficult for me as well, but if you just hang in there I think your friendship will flourish.

Answer 7

this may be due to miss understanding. there may be a situation created whice she can not explain u & for that reason may be she is upset & not like to talk with U. As per my advice Plz talk with ur friends regarding this.

Answer 8

i had a best friend like that we hated eachother in till this year we became best friends and then she acted like she didnt wanna b around me she started hanging with this other girl...and now there best friends and we dont talk much.......but i just got new friends and got over her

Answer 9

maybe its cos ur not truthful. u said ur question was long, its barely six lines. come on now

Answer 10

She wants to grow importance of her in you.