i was in love with a guy for one year, last year he married anothr girl, and after 6 months again he approached me.
he says that his married life is failure n he wants me, i am totally desperate. still now he is on my way...
now he is threatening me that he wil spoil my life with my photos (it's a passport size).
i dnt know wht to do.. pls help me out
2006-07-25 21:40:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Report him to the police.
2006-07-25 21:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Logic tells me that you have no problem.
First the picture no matter how profane is in the past and this is the present. He should be ashamed of the picture not you. Remember he is till married and his wife could use it against him, not you.
Secondly; He has shown you that he has no love for you. And if you don’t get your act together you may end up in the river and be a story in the papers. Protect your self and report him to the police and have your lawyer draw up a restraint order.
Thirdly if he comes into your home and he starts anything you can put him down and claim self-defence. Such men are animals; look at what happened recently to the Italian girl and that animal from the City. The girl had no chance; broke her nose then her head.
Be wise get help.
2006-07-25 22:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Point Blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to him! tell him that if he does anything to jeopardise your integrity you will go to his parents with some **** and bull story i.e. "you have heard on the grapevine that he is on drugs and being a peeping tom to some of your neighbours" that should worry him enough,
Bar that you can always go the other way and tell the police that he is threatening you physically.
What you have to do is figure out what would hurt him the most! You were with him for a year, you should know what makes him tick, then use it against him.
I hope that it all works out for you! God bless and get the Bastard.
2006-07-25 21:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by druboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to emotionally blackmail you to get back with him and I don't think he will do anything with the photos as it is just threats. Don't under any circumstances give in to this loser and just remember he is married, whether he is happy or not. He is a nasty piece of work and if he continues to harrass you then go to the police. He cannot spoil your life with a photo. If you give in to him he will make your life hell. Call his bluff and tell him to f.... off. Hope this helps.
2006-07-25 21:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your life back, you have to report him to the Police at once.
No one under these heavens has the right to threaten another for any reason whatsoever!
You may even be thinking that he won't do it, but what if he goes ahead and make your life a unbearable?
2006-07-25 21:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by private_footballfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he marry the other girl and now he's in to you and saying that his marriage is a failure? Is he okay? Just ignore him, he's a loser and bitter abt what had happen in his marriage. Leave him alone, maybe he's now into you because he's confuse and don't know what to do in his life. But please let him go, coz u don't know why he's acting a "different" behavior/attitude towards you.
2006-07-25 21:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can he spoil your life with your passport size photos? It's a nude photo? If, it's not, then just ignore him. If it's, then report it to the police as it will be an offence.
2006-07-25 21:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the authorities and try to get a restraining order. You should also take some self-defense lessons in case he tries something physical against you. Get yourself some mace as well and some kind of personal alarm. If he's still with his wife, tell her what he's doing to you!
2006-07-25 21:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by AvantG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he spoil your life with some passport-size photos? I think you should get a restraining order against him.
2006-07-25 21:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does NOT love you. He is married to someone else. DO NOT BE FOOLED by this ex. Go to the police if you have to. Does he love you if he is threatening to spoil your life? Hell no!
2006-07-25 21:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Naadu64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What photos...Tell him to pee off it is only photos you never know it might not spoil your life but could change your life as now you know what he really like do you want to go back to a guy like that?
2006-07-25 21:47:38 · answer #11 · answered by Carol E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋