i fall in love him,i cant resist my feelings with him,i know this not the right things,please give some advices,so i can apply,thank you very much
2006-07-25 21:20:42 · 25 answers · asked by vianca n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well it is wrong and you should end the relationship. You dont want to be know as the town home wrecker do you. I mean think about this a relationship needs trust and you cant trust him he is cheating on his wife to be with you and who knows who else he is seeing. He more than likely wont leave his wife for you most men dont. You need tp stop seeing him and find a man who is going to show his undivided attention to you. I myself would not want to share my man. How unfair do you think it is to his wife. Im sorry but you have found another low life cheating man who is not going to do anything but use you for sex.
2006-07-25 21:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by eeyore_0816 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Know that you are dating a very dishonest person. Your love isn't real, you are having an affair. You need to end it, you need to tell his wife. How would you feel if the man of your dreams gave you everything you ever wanted and you found out he was a cheater? You don't deserve this, other women don't deserve this. If he is in an open marriage or believes in more than one wife then you need to all talk about it together. But I can tell you when things go bad with you it's not you he will stay with. Married men know they have a good thing at home and will almost always go back to her. Take it from me. I was with someone who did the same and didn't tell me about the wife. This stole a year and a half from my life. I hope you don't do the same. Make a choice, stick with it and know you are beautiful you will find someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve.
2006-07-25 21:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE IS MARRIED, he is not yours, he is not your boyfriend, he is somebodys husband maybe father also.
If you want real love, respect and security, and eventually marriage, then break it off with this married person,
If it is true love, and he can not be without you, he will get a divorce and go after you,
but remember, he may cheat on you too,
if you like being easy, and just a convience for a man that has obligations, and commited to another, you will only have more lonliness, and be waiting for the day he get bored with you.. and dumps you..
there are so many single guys out there to love you if you are loveable, go there, and tell lthe married jerk, to go home, and work out his life, or change it,
2006-07-25 21:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be in a relationship with a married man??? You realize he's having sex with you AND his wife right? He may tell you that he's not but he is...and that is just nasty. He is using you because he's bored...he will eventually get bored with you and move on to someone else. Find a man that is honest and not a cheat and a liar and above all else....find a man that is SINGLE! married men rarely leave their wife for their mistress unless they get caught...and usually they still won't leave...it's her that leaves. So wise up and stop screwing around with a married man before you end up alone and broken hearted or possible severely beaten...because if his wife finds out she may hurt you. I know I would.
2006-07-25 21:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going nowhere and there is no future in it. You can resist your feelings but you are choosing not to, if you are going to do it at least be honest about it. Its a waste of time and a waste of your love to give it to a married man, he can not do anything but use you he is already committed to someone else. Let go of this and share the love you have with someone who can return it. Good luck!
2006-07-25 21:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you fall in love, get married and some other girl does the same thing to your marriage. Anything can be resisted, grow up.
2006-07-25 23:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he in love with you? Is he divorcing his wife? If he really loves you he would. Does his wife know? If he does not divorse his wife then I would say that he does not love you, or her for that matter. If he is not getting a divorce, the I would say he is in it just for the action, and is getting double with his wife, and you. You are better than that, and deserve to be more then just a man's mistress! If he can't respect you enough to do the right thing, then he doesn't deserve you!
2006-07-25 21:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by xstitchalanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girlfriend but the only advice is for u to leave him. with all the single men out there how can u pick a married man, how do u think his wife feels. put urself in her shoes, wuld u want that for urself.
2006-07-25 21:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by moment 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever we all say here, u r not gonna give up on him, so what;s the point of telling u what to do. but if u wanna hear it from us, u already know what we will say... get out of that mess now while its not too late...unless of course, u want to be a mistress and it doesnt really matter to you.. or u want to break up the family and it doesnt matter to you bec .. ITS ALL ABOUT YOU. honey, u cant live like that.. seriously...
2006-07-25 21:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that he wont leave his wife for you. as my friend says, some guys are pigs. they are just out to have all the fun they could get. it's better if you make the first move towards ending the relationship. you know it's not right? then do something about it!
2006-07-25 21:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by cute_filipina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋