I have a friend who manages to show me up just about everytime I go anywhere with him.He has no etiquette whatsoever and I am far from being a snob.He will park his car in a disabled only space whilst I'm in the passenger,and guess who gets the flack?He cuts ppl up in his car,if we go somewhere nice for food he will pester the staff constantly for a bigger helping etc.He will start talking football with people and he hasn't got the first clue about the game.He's good at attracting girls when we're out but then he walks off and leaves me talking to them.We've been close friends for 20 yrs. but now that i'm sober i'm looking at things differently.His motives are mainly selfish.Does anyone else feel like this?I can assure you i'm not petty,I'm just sick of him placing me in embarrassing and awkward situations!
2006-07-25 21:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by karlos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my friend is a nightmare! can't take him anywhere, he is always really loud and when he starts drinking the noise increases, he swears far 2 much and is not quiet about it either he will be fing and blinding no matter who's around.
2006-07-25 21:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that "you're sober" says it all. You've outgrown your friends antics and immature behavior. that happens to a lot of people. it's time to move on and find friends that respect you and that you have more in common with. i used to have a friend that was totally obnoxious. we grew up together and known one another since kindergarten, but she never matured and her attitude was terrible. i could never take her any where and when we did, she'd spoil it with her big mouth. i got tired of it and stopped including her in my life. One day we just parted ways and it was for the best. I saw her a few years ago at a shopping mall and she hadn't changed at all. Friends are supposed to enrich your life, not suck it out of you. Do yourself a favor...
2006-07-25 21:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by mangosmoothie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have a friend like that. Remember, not all people will judge you by the way he behaves but if it all gets too much and he starts to really grate on you like my friend did. Tell him, better than bottling it up and having a major barney with him. (unless thats what you want to happen so he's out of your life?)
2006-07-25 21:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While a friend of mine was trying to pick up a chick his other friend came up to him as said this guy you are talking to picks his nose and sniffs glue.
2006-07-25 21:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ruski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i used to have a friend like that thats why now she aint my friend nomore...sometimes some people never grow up ..they try to do it for attention ...low self estee or something..just try not to hang with him so much when he ask you why tell him the truth about what you dislike about him
2006-07-25 21:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him & find another best friend. Trust me, you feel much more happier as a human.
2006-07-25 21:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋