Why do you think most Marriages end up in divorce?

Answer 1

I think that most marriages end up in divorce because the two parties were not mature enough to know that marriages need work, that things are not going to be great all the time, and that both partners need to commuciate effectively, because if you don't tell people what you want, they won't know what you want ...few of us are mindreaders...helloo! So that's why they end up in divorce, lack of understanding...that's it.

Answer 2

Marriages ending up in divorce show the lack of proper communication, conflicting personal beliefs, failure in understanding each other, change in outlooks and attitudes of the people, deterioration in moral values etc. Some reasons that people give for getting a divorce, or wanting a divorce, are purely selfish and have no substance at all.

On the other hand, wanting happiness throughout married life and struggling hard to achieve it may also result in a divorce. When expctations do not match reality, people would get an insecure feeling which would eventually create diffeences in opinion, thus leading to a divorce.

As opposed to what people thought of as a long term commitment, now people tend to be more independent. The higher education level often increases the chance of divorce between a couple who are not happy with their relationship. Such factors as the increased number of women with higher education levels, more women entering the work force and wages that are nearly equal between men and women, play an important role. More women are able to support themselves and their children in the event of a divorce, and choose to do so rather than remain in an unsatisfying marriage.

Answer 3

I'm only a teen but I'll try my best. Okay. Some people get married way to early. You shouldn't get married in the first year you know someone. It's best you wait at least 3 years. That should be at least enough time to learn all you need to learn about that person. Also sometimes the sex isn't the same. When people have sex with each other and then they get married the sex becomes boring and they lose interest.

Also some people just aren't meant for each other. They get married and after a few years they don't even feel like they made the right choice.

Vegas weddings never last long lol.

Divorce is such an ugly thing. It's sad.

Answer 4

Next year, my husband and I will celebrate our 25. marriage universary. With all that experience, I can say that people lack patience and understanding. You have to give if you want to receive. If you and your spouse don't become the best of friends, that means you're doing something the wrong way. You have to trust each other. I see some women marry a man, want him to give them and their children a decent life, and then accuse him of "never been around" or "being too consumed by his work". And still they want a nice home, nice car, good schools for their children...
And I see men marrying a woman because she's clever, educated and competent. While dating, they go to restaurants to eat, because she doesn't cook. But after they're married, they feel that they have a right to ask her to leave her job, dump her career, put the apron on and cook him all the meals his Mom used to cook him...
In short, people get married, convinced that they can change each other afterwards. And that is never so. We can adjust to each other in some ways, but entirely change... no. Somebody always ends up unhappy. And then comes the divorce.

Answer 5

First of all, it is a trend in America /Europe etc.
Secondly, The couples are never in love with each others.
Its just attraction for some time.
The people there are not serious with their marrage life.
Why it mostly dosent happen in India, or Pakistan/ Arab/Midle east, etc???
I mean Muslim countries..
Because there the people take their marriage seriously.
They take it as a sacred relationship.
They think of their childrens' future.
The people in non-Muslims countries have many poblem in married life.
They betray each other.
There, they are open to have extramarital sex with any person.. they want...
the non muslims dont take it as a sacred thing
they take i as a comodity.
It is normal for a man & a woman to live together in a same apartment with out being married.
They do what ever they want ...
They think sex is the main thing in life...
u dont need marriage to have it.....
so they dont care about their children,thir family & get divorced....
& it is hopeless!

Answer 6

Either the couple doesn't think enough before getting married or they get tired of each other soon, because they didn't need it at all, but didn't realize it...
Anyway, the marriage tends to be the least valued institute in relationships.
What about me, I would like to be near my love whole my life and realize, that I'm connected with him for always. And may be the stamp will not mean anything. May be it would.

Answer 7

In a lot of cases people get married when they are just too young. They have just began living life and their growing isn't done yet and the partners grow apart.

One partner lives life to the fullest and gets everything they can out of it and the other partner stays the same person they always were. In this case hostility and resentment, maybe even jealousy, builds in the partner who hasn't chased or lived life.

There is so much inner turmoil going on that they become negative and hostile to the world. They then take it out on their family and grow dependent on alcohol or some other depressant that only aggravates the situation.

Oops, there I go complaining again...

Answer 8

There are many reasons why marriages end up in divorce..I refer to it as the lack of the 2 C's....communication..and ..committment .Couples don't talk out their concerns and problems..They run out the door in a fit of anger...
They are not totally committed to the relationship nor to each other.When the pressures of life arrives, and it always does..instead off sticking it out and resolving the problem someone bolts..

Answer 9

Women are certainly NOT crazy, they might be more clever than the overall men: Fact: more women continue their studies at universities than men at least in the Nordic counties, but the education is free of charge here. The education level could be one of the reasons of devours when the women find out that they are married to a nut. Unfortunately, too many women marry the same stupid fools as their mothers did.

Answer 10

actually most marriages do not end in divorce - only 35- 40 percent do. the truthful answer is fiancial problems, child issues, each spouse becomes more professional with a job. also the sex becomes less intense over a period of time. this is my opinion peace out.