i invited my bestfriends to sixflag so they can try to get along with my boyfried but now they have all seem to flake it seems likethey rather go do something else then go with me i just dont how to think or how to feel about these
2006-07-25 20:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by sandra b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then I recommend you sit your friends down and talk to them. It's not easy when friends and family don't like your bf, but I recommend you ask them why they don't like him and can't get along...make sure their reasons are valid...this means the reason should be something along the lines that he is cheater or liar, or that he has treated his previous gf's horribly and they (your friends) don't want to see you get hurt....if your friends say something like of he is ugly or he has bad fashion sense, then tell them that that is not a valid reason and until they realize how important he is to you, they will just have to deal with it.
Also, tell them it is important to have your friends get along with him, because you want to be able to spend time with both of them TOGETHER....and if they cannot be civil around him then they are hurting your feelings and no one elses. And if they are your true friends they will figure out a way to make it work...even if its for only a little while.
2006-07-25 20:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it has something to do with your boyfriend. Do they know that he is going? Maybe you should ask them about it...tell them that it hurts your feelings that they flaked out...no offense but maybe your boyfriend has done something to make them feel uncomfortable or they could just be jealous of your relationship...my advice...talk to them what's the worst they can say???
2006-07-25 20:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
****-em feed em fish throw them in the river. If they were your friends they would have given you a clue.give your new other a chance after your friends see you are serious they will either come around or bail if the latter and you are happy then you are better off without them! Good luck with the new one!
2006-07-25 20:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by mrbillintxs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if your girlfriends don't like hanging out with u n your man maybe it might be that they don't want to be Sick of love meaning they don't want to be hanging out one minute and the next you're all cuddled up it might make them feel left out or maybe they just don't like being around your man but anyways you don't need them to want to hang out with ya because you the one going out with him so you don't need them
2006-07-25 20:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Broken hearted in the bronx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your best friends why they don't like your boyfriend. Maybe he said something, to them, that they don't like. Also, ask your boyfriend, why he doesn't like your best friends.
2006-07-25 20:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER PUSH A BOYFRIEND ON FRIENDS. DO THEY LIKE HIM, I DON'T KNOW. MAYBE THEY COULD BE JEALOUS. EITHER WAY WHATS IMPORTANT IS HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM, NOT YOUR FRIENDS. IF HE TREATS YOU RIGHT THEN THATS ALL THAT MATTERS.
2006-07-25 20:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a g n do some thing bad for once
2006-07-25 20:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by mike303 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i cant read sorry, 2 points for me, wait sorry i g2g my tiger ate my weed again.
2006-07-25 20:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm
2006-07-25 20:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by tiya2raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a new question...........
2006-07-25 20:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by mobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋