i'm 12weeks and really frightened that if i admit it something bad is goning to happen but then i keep crying because i feel guilty about not seeing a doctor, two of my babies were stillborn as a result of cervicl stiches getting infected and i think this plays a part in my fear, i have panic attacs if i set foot in a hospital or sugery and i don't know what to do.
2006-07-25 20:29:27 · 11 answers · asked by andrea p 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You had a cervical stitch obviously for cervical incompetance thus it is clear that this is required to keep your pregnancy intact.
You neeed to go to the doctor or you will ultimately go into labour and deliver prematurely or miscarry..........
This is important, take a support person who calms you
tell the staff you have panick attacks
even consider hypnotherapy to help relax you
2006-07-25 22:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that you have to do that. You are adult person and mum. So do what is the best for you and your unborn baby. What ever it is it is. Be brave and see the doctor. I know it feels great to live in a beautiful dream, but maybe doctor will tell you its reality or maybe he will give you some really bad news. But no matter what it is go see the doctor and pray for the best.
2006-07-26 03:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by HarMonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Docs can help you maintain the pregnancy. Not going to a Doc is Not helpful.
My first pregnancy ended in misscarriage, and I was devistated, but I had gone to a Doc so I felt I had done Everything I could.
The pregnancy may or may not survive, if it doesn't you will be comforted by giving it its best chance by getting pre natal care.
Adoption is an option.
But give this baby its best chance.........see a doc.
2006-07-26 03:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Norton N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u bring a support person with u it will be easier for you. The best thing to do is get medical care. That way you will know if anything else is going on with you and the baby as well.
2006-07-26 03:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by ItalianRose29 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As terrifiying as that is.. and I am so sorry for your losses, it is safest to be seen by a doctor and have the best medical care possible to help you through the pregnancy. As well you may want to speak to a counsellor to help you through. I am sorry this can't be a happier time for you, I couldn't even imagine. Gentle Hugs
2006-07-26 03:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by walkietalkiethree2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to be afraid off my dear.... baby's are gift from GOD, if its not for you then its not the right time. 12 weeks is too long.... the baby needs some check-ups from the expert.... go to your OB Gye for proper treatment and care for the baby and state your condition and feeling my sure your OB would be glady to work with you as well, dont waste any time this might be too late. Just remember if it is yours its yours. I'll pray for you and to you baby.... God bless you both!!!
2006-07-26 03:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont go to the dr something could happen to the baby. If you dont get seen until you are due, you could lose the child by it being taken away due to neglect. If I were you I would get counseling and go to the doctor.
2006-07-26 03:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please for your sake and the sake of your baby go to a doctor...I've been there I lost my first baby too and I went on to have two healthy talkative children. I don't know where you're from, but can you go to a clinic or a doctors surgury or a midwife?
Be brave darling and try to be strong. do you have family/partner to support you?
please email me if you like...I'm nurse maybe I can help.
good luck and loads of love coming your way.
PS I replied but it didn't go through something about confirming your email...would like to reply...good luckxxx
2006-07-26 03:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to the doctor, going or not isn't going to stop it being stillborn if thats the case.
2006-07-26 03:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must go
Ther may be a simple treatment to insure a healthy baby
2006-07-26 03:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋