i try 2 make friends but becoz of my looks no girl wants 2 be with me
2006-07-25 19:46:45 · 25 answers · asked by manav s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if they can't look beyond your looks forget them
2006-07-25 19:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by kaycee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In western culture, physical attraction does play a big role in how we mate. What is considered attractive, however, varies tremendously. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder. Your looks aren’t irrelevant, but considering I don’t know what you look like, I would tell you the following:
Confidence is key. Looks without confidence is useless. Girls will ultimately go with a guy who is comfortable in his own skin and not afraid to take initiative and draw the line in the sand for her. I know several people who are not the most attractive guys, yet they pick up woman easier than Britney Spears picks up herpes (probably). The point is, there is something about these guys that is irresistible to woman, and its not their insatiable looks or handsome head of hair. Instead, it is the way they make the girls feel and the fact that they believe they have worth, even if they don’t have the looks.
2006-07-26 03:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by rolshmin267 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly.. what really counts is not the look but your personality.. If you think u r ugly then others will also see u like that.. If you think you are handsome and cool then ppl will think the same.. Look around u .. the guys who r considered "cute" "handsome" and "sexy" are they really? nah.. its mostly their personality and their style..You need to be confident .. Show who you really are and be open to ppl ..dont be scared to talk to someone and be friendly.. they will respond..Just be yourself and do what makes u happy.. If someone doesnt like u for the way u look then they r not worth ur time.. Dont be bothered of those kind of things..and convince urself that u r not ugly cz u r not.. Be confident and be cool .. =D
2006-07-26 03:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the looks that counts it's the personality within!Or try to be neat and clean, as well as being gentleman to the ladies!Cheer up and have a self-confidence!Try to show your sex appeal the way you dress and talk,be yourself and soon girls will like you!Looks last only for the first impression but ladies are more focus in man's sincerity and gentleness!Good luck!
2006-07-26 02:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's a fact, then what you lack physically outshine them mentally. Be the brightest, the smartest, the wisest. Turn it into a money-making talent. Aim high. One day girls will take notice of you.
Next time comeback to this website and start complaining how to get the rid of the girls lining up your doorway.
2006-07-26 02:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by Frontal Lobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah dude looks is not a factor you are just not carrying your self right, dont come up too desprate and let them know that u want a relationship, keep it cool and make clear that you just wanna be friendz then after a while you are in the game and she is completely yours. Im ugly too but got alot of friends that are girls.
2006-07-26 02:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks dont always matter it is whats on the inside you just got to find the right girl that realizes that its not all about outside beauty its mainly about inside beauty! Be confident dont give up there is someone out there for everyone!
2006-07-26 02:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THOSE PEOPLE ARE NARCISSISTS...
read Greek mythology... all these stories...
Just be yourself, not everyone is vain and uncouth.
Beauty is not even close to what life is about.
Accept yourself.
Be intelligent, go to an IVY league, join groups, get together,
you will find the right one.
GOod people look beyond appearance.
You are probably a friendly man.
good luck! ^_^
2006-07-26 02:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by starrynight107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most gurls look at personality to be the main judgement and if you hold a level of confidence in yourself it will make gurls want you cause they see that you got poise. as long as u kno u sexy thas all that matter boo!!!!!! stay up hope this helped and if u need to talk get at me ;)
2006-07-26 03:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find a girl one day when you least expect it..Beauty isn't skin deep it's what is inside your heart that matters..So don't let them bother you .
Things will start happening for you just chill out and it will happen . Maybe you are trying too hard
2006-07-26 03:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think you are ugly? I'm sure you have a great personality. Just be yourself around girls, smile and be friendly.
2006-07-26 02:53:53 · answer #11 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋