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2006-07-25 19:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by ud u 1 in Beauty & Style Skin & Body

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There are plenty...
1) be who you are, don't be fake. chicks hate that.
2) be confident in yourself.
3) don't be a ***.
4) just be nice, say high, etc. striking up a conversation works very well.
5) listen to the song by Blue October "Balance Beam".
6) don't look for the hottest tail out there, find someone that matches the kind of person you are.

2006-07-25 19:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

* How to Get a Girlfriend *

It is usually harder for guys to get a girlfriend than it is for girls get a boyfriend. For all those who are unlucky in the love (or lust) department, follow these steps to become Mister Smooth.

Steps
Do not pick a target girl.
Pick a location frequented by a significant number of girls, where you feel fairly comfortable, perhaps a place that is conducive to a skill of yours: music, public speaking, private intimate conversation.
Scope out the pickings. Pick one or two or three. Keep these in your mind as "potentials".
If you feel you have gotten to know any "Potentials" well to ask them out, go ahead and do it, worst thing that could happen is that she says no, then she's at a loss. But not you, you've still got the others.
Appearance is key. Clean up for a high class city girl. Dress down for the fun loving motorbike chick.
Be funny. If your not naturally funny, don't try to be around her, pitch jokes to other people, see how the jokes do with them. If you get no laughs there, just pray, because its gonna be hard winning a girl without humor.
Keep up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do not like slouchers. Bad posture gives an air of unconfidence. Smiling makes a guy more welcoming. A good walking style, (straight back, a hand in the pocket and taking well distanced strides) gives the impression of intelligence.
Talk. Silent guys are as annoying as peas. (On the other hand, men who do NOTHING but talk and NEVER listen are annoying too.)
Look and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and other subtle gestures allow the girl to feel connected with the guy.
Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady too.
Don't pretend to be someone you aren't, you may think you will win her round with it but in the end it will backfire, find a common interest, something you both like. if she likes a band and you don't, lie about it, and listen to them till you change your mind.

Tips
Put on great smelling aftershave or cologne. Research the best selling ones at department stores. A good scent really turns a woman on.
Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth and nails clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces.
Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, arts and even sports news. Women love a well informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in every aspect. Or just actually be well educated.
Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.
Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man.
Most importantly, offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.
Don't annoy you girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply but unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "i <3 u".
Don't be unsubtle. Yet it is important not to be so obtuse as to be unreadable.

Warnings
Do not stalk the lady!
Grinning like the Cheshire cat is creepy.
Taking over the entire conversation is over-bearing and rude.
Do not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down. It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility of rejection.
Avoid being a close talker. Nobody likes that.

2006-07-25 19:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by @ngёL♥PÏήK 5 · 0 0

start with a sincere smile....not the lecherous kind of smile. Make eye contact with the girl of your choice...if she looks away, she's either shy or not into you. If a second attempt still yields negative results, re-evaluate your options. Making a girlfriend's easy...maintaining the relationship's tough!

2006-07-25 19:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0 0

um if you're wanting to "make" a girlfriend you might try watching the movie like Bride of Frankenstein....

If you're wanting to find a girl friend, you might become social and start talking to people...if you're looking for a good conversation starter I've found that Hello usually works.

2006-07-25 19:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by Skot M 2 · 0 0

1>>Be honest
2>>Be confident
3>>Make she feel save to be with u
4>>Let him feel u can't lose him
5>>Make him feel u r reliable
6>>Share her happiness & sadness

2006-07-25 20:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by veRen 1 · 0 0

take a can of carnation instant *****, add water, mix with desired hair and eye color. you're all set!

2006-07-25 19:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Spellcaster97 2 · 0 0

just simply propose her freely.. with true heart

2006-07-25 19:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by praveen jain 2 · 0 0

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