2006-07-25 19:33:26 · 16 answers · asked by zipper m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no it is not o.k. when you have a marriage it will break you up because you will like it at first but your husband will find it OK to mess with other women.No Real Women finds it OK to have a threesome with her husband unless you both were going to be swingers.You both have a happy home with kids but fu*k other people and happy with that.If you find yourself only wanting your husband and no one else having him, that is a bad idea.You will always have a picture in your head of him screwing another female.The thought will cross your mind that they might have screwed when you wasn't around.The best thing to do is to do what you want to do.A marriage is two and is over when it becomes three.
2006-07-25 19:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
that is up to you and your husband. i would recommend setting some ground rules first. such as no kissing or whatever you wouldn't feel comfortable with. how strong is your relationship with your husband? is this going to be a one time thing or a repeat performance? do you know who you are going to have a three some with? would it be male or female? remember what you find exciting in fantasies might not be the same in real life. then once the fantasy has been done in real life, you might have to find a new fantasy. it could be great or disastrous. good luck to you and your honey!!!
2006-07-25 19:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realize that your relationship will never be the same. That could be a good thing, but more often than not, it's a bad thing. It also sets the precedence for a repeat performance. How often do you really want to do this? What if he really enjoys the other woman? You might tell him you will, but he has to do a 3some with another guy too.
2006-07-25 19:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dave S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. to each their own.. Personally I have been there, and at the time it is exciting (like Ya) but the next morning, things are different...Don't know how long ya'll been married or whatever.. Think about it very seriously. Sharing your man (me my woman) is a major step. Tried it, things fell apart afterwords.
2006-07-25 19:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by mr.longshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how your relationship really is,?if you can deal with your man sleeping with some other female,then go for it,but if it will bother you till the end of time,( that he may like her more then you)then i wouldnt,but on the other hand if he dont mind if you all sleep with another man.then hey go for that.but again what are your chances of you maybe falling for this other guy? really think first before you might regret something?it might be better to keep it as a fantasy.
2006-07-25 19:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by arizonagirl05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly OK, especially since he is asking you for it & secondly siNnce u also dream n fantacise bout the same n derieve pleasure just by thinking about it.
Think how much enjoyable and fun it wud be if those dreams came true.
Happy threesum
2006-07-25 19:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by darwin_david2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that did that and now she wishes she didnt, she said it was fun but that fun doesnt last that long and most of the time it comes back to bite you in the butt when you and your husband is argueing and 99 percent of the time it is brought up by the hubby and that when it comes back to get you.
2006-07-25 19:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he's being surely ridiculous, besides because the human beings calling you a slut and such. only because he had a dream of you drowsing with yet another guy, of route does no longer recommend it is taking position in genuine existence. I had a dream that I had sex with honestly one of my perfect acquaintances yet i'd under no circumstances in my existence. often times your options creates marvelous objectives that would want to characterize different issues out of your subconscious. case in point, his dream of you dishonest might want to easily be his insecurities and concern popping out. Hun you want to communicate some experience into that guy and tell him it changed into purely a dream.
2016-11-26 00:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we'll if thatz what u wanna do go ahead ur both grown people but remember the can change the whole outlook of ya'll sex life. he might always want to include this person or he might jus had sex with this person without u around and won't see it as cheating so u have to really think about it
2006-07-25 19:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by powderjusblazin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you would have it. Curious? Then why not? Insecure? Then don't. Don't have one just to have one. Really think and discuss with your hubby first. You don't want to regret that it happened because you weren't positive that that's what you wanted to begin with.
2006-07-25 19:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by aliveagain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋