We have a 6mnth baby and things have not been well between us. I am undecided as to move back to NZ or just take an extended break, either way we want to stay together as he will move back in 2 years. I found lipgloss this morning in the car it is not mine. he no longer sleeps with me claiming he is too tired. He also has footy training Tues and thurs and oz tag weds. Today he booked my flights home and then told me he has a friend coming to look at the spare room cause he wants to move in. We haven't even decided wether the baby and I will stay on in NZ yet but it feels like he is making the decision for me. Please any help would be much appreciated
2006-07-25 19:33:13 · 10 answers · asked by mary g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The friend looking at the spare room is male and is supposed to be coming around tonight to have a look
2006-07-25 19:46:25 · update #1
if you can not make decisions together you aint got much of a relationship
2006-07-25 19:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a child is stressfull enough as it is...,but having to deal with this can be draining. In your heart, you know the answer to this question already....pick up the pieces of your heart and go home....eventually, if its meant to be he will understand what he has lost and hopefully the two of you can work something out. I am sorry for what you are going through, but always remember that you dont have to stay with someone just bc you have a child with them. Good Luck !
2006-07-25 19:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by sgame00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS CHEATING THATS WAY HE IS TRYING TO GET RID OF YOU AND THE BABY SO HE CAN HAVE MORE FREEDOM. I WOULD NOT GO ANYWHERE IF I WERE YOU I WOULD CATCH HIM IN THE ACT BEFORE I LEAVE SO WHEN YOU DO LEAVE YOU WANT BE WONDERING IF HE IS CHEATING OR NOT.
2006-07-25 19:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes moving the new girl in, and moved you out. He sounds like a loser, stay away, and think about your child, & not him
2006-07-25 19:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible; have a talk with him when you get home. Don't let this man make all your decisions for you.
2006-07-25 19:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is cheating. You already know that. He is so busted he is playiing you for a fool. Good luck.
2006-07-25 19:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by paramedic9742 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it do sounds like he's cheating to me and he is pushing you and the baby away. you need to step up and handle your business and let him knew how you feel and if he don't change leave his ***
2006-07-25 19:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't typically use lip gloss. he is probably cheating and a divorce is in your future. do it on your terms, not his. good luck babe.
2006-07-25 20:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably cheating.
2006-07-25 20:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by dawngy04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh what other evidence do u need to know he's cheating all da signs r right in ur face
2006-07-25 19:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by powderjusblazin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋