it really hurt my feelings and i've been depressed for weeks all i do is stay in the house what should i do please no silly answer this is serious.
2006-07-25 19:27:50 · 17 answers · asked by neida 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I bet you are ugly and I bet he doesn't like you because you're a racist.
2006-07-25 19:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
first of all...i'm sure you are not ugly. not everybody has the same idea of what is beautiful, so, if you are not this guys type, then that's okay, it doesn't mean that others feel the same way. i'm guessing you are quite young, because no real friends would ever tell you that somebody said you were ugly...you don't usually make real friends until you are a self assured adult. i would tell your friends that you are not interested in a guy that is so cruel and that you are questioning whether or not you should remain friends with a bunch who would not defend you and would say something so hurtful to you...they could simply have said you are not his type or that he was not interested. dry your eyes and fix yourself up and go out and do something that makes you feel good about yourself!
2006-07-26 02:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by tella stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you grow up you will be less affected by other peoples opinions. Might as well start now letting peoples words just roll off your back. You are giving some one else way too much power in your life.
You probably not ugly. When it comes to ugly and pretty is the self confidence of the person. Work on loving and being good to yourself. And stop giving other people so much power to their words that you fall apart.
This is part of growing up. You can do it!
2006-07-26 02:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn...are you kidding?? This happened to me also, but that was one persons opinion..since then several ladies have told me I'm hansome...I don't no, it could be one a two things...1. He does like you and is going the 2nd grade(I hate her) route or 2. Homie has a tiny pecker....either way he has the most likely has the vision of Ray Charles. Next time you see him just smack him in the junk and then laugh...and say you where jokin' about the crush. Friggin' Dickheads...remember MOST guys grow out of that retardation!!
The Doc
2006-07-26 02:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Halfrican 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun don't Liston to that jerk.... he doesn't appreciate people enough to not judge them based off of physical appearances. Just forget about him, and to make YOU feel better take the day off. Just hangout with your best girlfriends go do stuff you guys love to do! Maybe go shopping, to the movies or just chill out someones house! have an awesome day where nothing bugs you and just completely ignore the male race!!!
Oh and if you ever see that guy again and he starts to annoy you.... just walk over to him with a bunch of confidence and say
"Hey, thanks for proving me right about you... Know theres proof that your ego is bigger then your dick... too bad there wasn't much to beat." and just walk away and go have a good rest of the day! :]
2006-07-26 02:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Izzy <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you don't need a guy who is going to dismiss you because he doesn't particularly like your appearance. He must be a jerk if he just came out and said you were ugly. Look for someone who'll appreciate what you have within.
2006-07-26 02:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Wild Cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends aren't nice at all! Maybe they are jealous of you and want him for themselves.Get out of the house. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and find another bunch of friends. Ones that are nice. Also, no guy is worth the pain.
2006-07-26 02:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's obviously not worth ur time at all...he's just this jackass that cares bout how someone looks...if u truly love or like someone u could really careless bout how they look...its about who they are not what they are...so u have no reason to be depressed over this guy....u can go hangout with ur friends to get him off ur mind or go meet some other guy....theres lots of guys out there who are not jackasses
2006-07-26 02:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do visit , beauty parlor , get nice hair style suits your face , then go for manicure / pedicure and have nice massage , find out different colours suits your body colour and wear matching clothes , by some nice shoes , maching to your personality . Read and memo-rise lots of jokes and use them every time you open your mouth , and see the fun .
2006-07-26 02:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, he's not worth knowing . . even if you're not classically beautiful, I'm sure you're attractive, I'm sure you have some nice features, and you're probably a lovely person . . just think about all that this very stupid man is missing out on . . Go find yourself someone that will cherish you, believe me, he's out there!!!!!
2006-07-26 02:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by Joy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ignore people like that. all he is trying to do is be funny. don't let him bring you down or have you really thinking your ugly. get over it and continue doing you, forget about him. go find someone that is respectful and that would appreciate you.
and please don't let the comment he said about you having low self-esteem, because he's not worth it.
2006-07-26 02:31:55 · answer #11 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋