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2006-07-25 19:20:57 · 29 answers · asked by yummy _me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My grandpa always said: "Never trust a man that says 'trust me'." Good advice. If he lied once, he'll do it again.
2006-07-25 19:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by bionicRod 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it depends what did he lie about. If it was a serious matter and had concerns to relationships, then the right thing to do would be never to pursue with that again. If it was something general, then the only thing I would have to tell you is that, it is just a part of life, things would actually get better with constant nagging. It might be a little difficult to change habits, but can be changed. So relax and roll.
2006-07-26 04:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can a person be sincere when they have lied? No, I would not trust anyone who has lied to me for any reason. The truth, however awful, I can handle. Lying gets zero tolerance.
2006-07-26 02:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this one. He is so charming that you forgive him when you shouldn't.
This is why I am not with my mb anymore. He lied to me about something huge and I could never trust him again. And I deserve a good honest man in my life. So, do you.
it is the guys that lie who are so dang charming that we listen to them until we have been hurt so many times that we are next to nothing.
You are smart enough to do what you need to do.......
2006-07-26 02:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be able to forgive this person for lying, but you will never be able to forget, and it will be in the back of your mind everyday of your relationship, especially if he ever does anything that seems suspicious, your mind will go back to the lie, and it will not matter whether or not he is telling you the truth now, because you know that he is a liar. more than likely not only will you not be able to trust him to be truthful, but he simply is not worthy of your trust. WATCH OUT!
2006-07-26 02:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by tella stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUYS LIE A LOT!!! Here is the real question what if you were him but then look at it on this side you aren't him. If you really want to get the truth out of him do a lie detector test it may cost a bit but i will guarntee you it will answer your questions.
2006-07-26 02:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by omakgirl7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone do mistakes. so if someone lied just once or even twice and he is sincere when saying that he'll never do that again then i think he should get another chance. but if he does it consistantly enough then u should get rid of such person.
2006-07-26 02:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by fAr stAr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont trust men, my exhusband sounded sincere the first 3 times. i was stupid enuf to believe him that many times. all men are lieing @ssholes. hes just being sincere so you'll take him back. and he'll do it again
2006-07-26 02:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by ragsdalemb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give a little bit of trust not all of it, I gave my soon to be ex husband chances after chances after he kept lieing to me and I waited to late to leave, now I dont love him anymore and have to start over.
2006-07-26 02:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always said that I give all my trust in the beginning and it's up to the individual as to what they do with that trust, but if they break it, it's unrepairable. But that's just my thought on it.
2006-07-26 02:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by stepmomster22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋