I have been away from my husband for the day, I told him I was visting family but I was reallly at the doctor. He told my that I cannot have children. I am very unhappy, we have a happy marriage but after this will he still love me.
2006-07-25 19:20:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have a happy marriage, why wasn't your husband with you at the doctor's today? This affects him as well. Unless he's a complete jerk, he'll still love you, after all, he married you, not your ovaries or uterus. You can still have children in your lives, you'll just have to go about it different ways. I have a niece and a nephew who are both adopted, they're great kids. Tell your husband the truth about what happened today, I guarantee you, unless he's out of the country, he knows something is up with you. I'm so sorry for the pain you're in as well. That's horrible news to get.
2006-07-25 19:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I am so so so sorry that you can't have children. What a horrible thing to find out. I can understand your anxiety about telling your husband. If I were you I wouldn't worry about him not loving you. He married you because he loves you. Sickness and in Health Rich or Poor Good and Bad. He made that promise to you to God and to both of your families. He will love you no matter what. I hope all goes well for you God Bless
2006-07-25 19:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by mrs_care_graham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ever really loved you in the first place, he will deff still love you. There are other options for woman who cannot have children anyways. But if that is not something you would want to do I still wouldn't worry, if you're really special to him he will love you no matter what ups and downs come your way. Just talk to him about it! I'm sure he will understand and if he doesn't then as hard as it is to do, you need to ditch him and find someone that will. Good luck. :)
2006-07-25 19:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by *Elle Marie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he will continue to love ya even after knowin this & u can always adopt a child (even im adopted from wen i was a 3 month child in da orphanage in india) . Ok so dont worry have a nice day , nd do never think of this again & i would suggest u to approach another doc too.
2006-07-25 19:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Devil sole mate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, he'll take this in stride and not care. Would you stop loving him if it was in the reverse situation? Of course not. There are always alternatives to having your own child too. I know that's no consolation, but maybe you could discuss this with your husband, and see how he feels, if it's important to you to have children.
2006-07-25 19:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Cy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. (Maybe you can adopt?)
If your husband truly loves you then this should not alter his love for you. You're not a baby factory. He will probably be disappointed if he wants to have a child, but if he stops loving you after he finds out then you are probably better off with someone who will love you for you.
2006-07-25 19:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Wild Cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys really want kids?? Start with a second opinion from a second doctor. And "yes" he will still love you, if he's a man at all.
2006-07-25 19:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by mr.longshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He married you because he loves you and wants to be with you... he didn't marry you just so you could have babies for him.
He is happy with you, and you're happy with him.
You don't want him to be unhappy and he doesn't want you to be unhappy, so>>> don't be unhappy, ok?
2006-07-25 19:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you that won't matter. Adopt.
2006-07-25 19:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, there are other alternatives out there. Good luck.
2006-07-25 19:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋