i have this best friend and she has a boyfriend and a few days ago they ask me if i would like to have a 3some with them. i thought about it and would be willing to the only thing is that i have a boyfriend and love him dearly and it would break his heart if i did it and he found out about it. what should do?
2006-07-25 19:06:10 · 16 answers · asked by vcpink_21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just say no. If your ok with it and they are ok with it, but it will cost you your boyfriend it is not worth it. Another time another place it may be a different story, but not right now.
2006-07-25 19:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Be willing" doesnt sound as tho you're totally sold on the idea.
At very least, I dont feel it's something to be taken so lightly.
Please dont do anything that you may regret. It's not as easy to UNDO, the already done! :)
I guess the best answer would be:
How would you feel if your boyfriend had a 3some with 2 others???
2006-07-26 02:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really r confused u start off by saying ur willing to do it but than end it in i have a boyfriend and it would break his heart on the road their headed u need to stick with ur man 4 real a year down the road she gone be telling u something else like i have AIDs
2006-07-26 02:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Break his heart" - that's all you are worried about? If you break your pledged commitment to him in a sleazy way like this, I promise you, it will break more than his heart! It will break up your relationship and maybe your future happiness.
If you want to go off and experiment with all kinds of promiscuity, well, that's your decision, but betraying others and deceiving them, well that's rotten to say the least and we don't always recover from the rotten things we do to others..........
2006-07-26 02:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't do it.But if you do then talk to your boyfriend that they asked you.If your best friend wan't ask them if your boyfriend can join.But If you don't wan't to tell him then don't do it girl,if you don't wan't to loose the trust of your boyfriend the only thing is that for you to do is deniye the offer. Why do you wa't to do it with your best friend and her boy friend,let them have their own privasy and talk to your friends about your boyfriend's trust,and tell them to do their thing and have fun,while you can do your own thing with your boy friend,and ask your best friend to join you and your boyfriend....smart huhh.That way you and your boyfriend won't have any problems.
2006-07-26 02:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to consider his feelings in this situation, how would you feel if he were to do that and you did not want him to do it would you still love him and could you forgive him for what he or she did, and if you truley loved him and valued his oppinion then you would not cheat on him and yes that is cheatin and you should not subject yourself to stoopin to the level that most ppl would and loose the thing that you care for the most and if they were true frinds and knew how he felt about that they would not ask you to even do that with them because it might just distroy your friendship with them !
2006-07-26 02:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by blackbirdeus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on u dear,as far as 3some than i did it once with my husband and my cousin sister.
2006-07-26 02:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by terri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, but as a condition have your girlfriend agree to a threesome with you and your boyfriend.
2006-07-26 02:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said your own answer.....you have a boyfriend and you love him dearly...it would break his heart.....
now you have your answer....
2006-07-26 02:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4-some comes to mind.
2006-07-26 02:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by abbeyroad54321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋