I just wanna know whats love? i was with my ex boyfriend for a year..i kow i was in love with him.but know that wre not to together. i try to make my myself believe it just had to happen..we still talk to each other. im talkin to him rite now.i cry every day askin myself why do he leave.why does he want me back. i want him back but. i just need to tell me what is love to them? like what does love me really..?please help and answer my question
2006-07-25 18:58:53 · 13 answers · asked by <3RomanticChick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweety...I don't think anyone will ever really be able to explain cause love has so many different twist and obstacles. I believe there is love and being in love. Love is when you care about someone a lot...like your friends and stuff. Being in love in my view is when you find it hard to breath when you hear their name or are around them. When you couldn't possibly imagine one single day without them. You would live in a box with them if you had to as long as you were together. Someone you would die for. That is what I think about the whole love thing.
2006-07-25 19:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 1 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Love really has little to do with sex. It has more to do with respect, devotion, and commitment.
Say for instance you are "dog tired" and you just worked a long day and got home and the and the loved one asked you to do a favor after you have sat down with a cold drink of ice water and started to relax in the recliner with the TV on your favorite show.
You say without skipping a beat -"Yes of course I'll do it now ." ( and in turn you are not expecting anything for the favor ) because you want to do the favor. Now that's an example of love and respect. Just think the other person feels appreciated and you feel you are appreciated. In other instances negotiation may be in order not an argument. This may sound overly simplified but why waste energy arguing when doing or negotiation will accomplish so much more.
2006-07-25 19:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by john f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...love is the truth, and the truth hurts. it's a sort of pledge, a commitment that you're gonna look out for your partner, through thick & thin, above & below, wherever. it's something that fills up your empty voids. it's your fuel to keep you going in life. it's what picks you up when you're down & dusts you off. it can blind you but still lead you in the right direction. it's support, trust, loyalty, more than lust & infatuation. it's your pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. it's a deep pool that you can drown in. it either plagues, heals, or breaks your heart, or all of the above...all that...there's more to it, obviously, but hopefully you get what im workin at
2006-07-25 19:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by metronome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A love is easy to feel, so hard to explain; so easy to get, so hard to let go; so easy to spell, so hard to define...and yet everyone is still taking the risk. That's love!
It may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pain, but if you don't follow your heart; in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance.
2006-07-25 19:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by jamaicangirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem i just got out of a reationship to and i thought i was in love but you never know I'm going to tell you something my best friend damien told me love is when you would give up everything just to be with that person! Its when you would die for them! thats love and if you would do that for that person then you are in love. One thing you need to know never fall in love you will get hurt!
2006-07-25 19:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by chasten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What else is love but understanding and rejoicing in the fact that another person lives, acts, and experiences otherwise than we do…?
2006-07-25 19:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is being slapped across the face and not caring.
2006-07-25 19:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a feeling that is felt by the heart.....it is very complex..if u love someone he invades every corner of ur heart..that is why its very hard to forget.
2006-07-25 19:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Stary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It involves beer and nudity
2006-07-25 19:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? you love hurts when it ends real love does anyway
2006-07-25 19:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by vonettawilson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋