my friends a dog breed she is going on 3 months now her dogs are her life and are aggresive towards young children she isnt with the baby's dad and is thinking about having an abortions basically this is her career and thinks a baby will interfere what do you think i should tell her ?? what would you do ??
2006-07-25 18:57:10 · 11 answers · asked by lala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Killing her own child should not be an option. Is her career really more important than the life of her son or daughter? She has several options. She can place her child with an adoptive family, or keep the dogs completely away from the child, or give up the dogs. Please direct her to these sites:
Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
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Support for Pregnant College and Career Women:
http://www.nurturingnetwork.org
2006-07-26 02:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 3⤋
Well i am sure you have heard about the whole thing about if you have an abortion you are committing murder to someone that is so innocent and pure. I personally believe that u should have the child and if you don't want it put it into adoption so it can have a home and family that really loves them. Some people out there would love to have a child of their own but some can't because of certain complications. So Tell her that you are worried about her and for her baby. No matter what choice she makes you have to accept it because you have already tried to help and you aren't her, you might want to ask if she is scared that is a number one factor why people go for abortions. Just think if you were really in her situation what would you do? She needs a friend right now i am pretty sure my friend had the same problem but she was gonna abort it because of a cheerleading outfit that she just bought. Be there for her so you can be one of her biggest supports. She can easily have her dogs trained by so many people. I don't know how old she is but i would like to recommend to you is that you should write a pro's and con list about having the baby then write a pro's and con list about NOT having the baby. You can have people help you on this list and then show it to your friend and tell her this is what could happen.
2006-07-26 02:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by omakgirl7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she doesn't want the baby, then what would be the point of her keeping it?
It's better to just not have the baby than to have the baby & not be able to give the child the life it deserves.
She's still young, there will be plenty of other opportunities for her to get pregnant again when she feels responsible enough to raise a child.
Raising a child is a full-time commitment, & if she dosen't feel that she is ready to take on that responsibility, then it is probabally in the best interests of both parties that she just doesn't try to take on that kind of commitment untill she is ready.
So yes, I do believe that in this case, having an abortion would be completely understandable & better for both of them in the long run.
2006-07-26 02:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren C.: Led-head 4 (∞) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a bunch of dogs, regardless of the breed, compared to a tiny infant? I would chuck the dogs, even if it was my only source of income and have the baby. Besides, not trying to be cruel, but if she knew all of this about her dogs being aggressive towards kids, why didn't she use protection in the first place? Regardless of career.
2006-07-26 02:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she cant give the baby all the love it deserves.. then of course she couldnt keep it. i guess its up to them if they want to have an abortion or not. im undecided on my feelings towards it. i guess i would say have the baby and give it up for adoption. but usually it is hard to do that for most women. if she has bad feelings about it.. i saw she should do it.. but if she's going to regret it... than adoption is the way to go.
2006-07-26 02:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful_Brunette235 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no she should not have an abortion,she should get rid of her dogs,and choose a differnt career,it isnt the babys falt that she messed up,she could even give it up for adoption.
2006-07-26 02:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a lilfe is about to be born , if she dont want it there are many people that cant have babies that might want to adopt She is a fool to throw a life of an angel away
2006-07-26 02:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't get na abortion. it could ruin her life 2 with physical side effects a emotional side effects. if she doesn't want it. give it up for adoption.
2006-07-26 02:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by emwads 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want it, now is the time to do something about it.
2006-07-26 02:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you give this link to your friend please. Heres the link: http://www.silentscream.org/video1.htm
I hope she changes her mind after seeing the videos.
2006-07-26 02:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by arthurmljr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋