ok well this girl wont leave me and my bf alone. she caused us to fight alot but now i know that she wants us to break. she would spread rumors about him and tell ppl that he is cheatin on me and i would get weird phone calls. sometimes it makes me wander. last year everyone i knew told me that they were hookin up but i end up believin my bf. she is very nasty and all of her friends are too cuz that what they like to do to break couples. Has it ever happend to u???????? how do i stop it???? next time i see her should i just punch her so she can learn her leson?? lol
thanx
2006-07-25 18:48:33 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd say the best thing to do, if you and your boyfriend both know that she is trying to break you up, is ignore her completely. Both of you, just ignore her. Giving her a response will only provoke her further.
2006-07-25 18:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Master Maverick 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your guy that you know that he is banging her on the side and that you want to do a threesome with her. If is relieved and promises to ask her right away, dump him because he is a cheater. Never go back.
If he is confused beyond the telling of it and can barely form words, then say ‘just kidding’ and reward him big time because he is innocent. Trust him for life and ignore the B****.
If he gets all defensive, then play it by ear, because he might get this way if he is or isn’t doing her.
Also, the girl and her friends are immature, don't stoop to her level and ignore the rumor mill.
2006-07-26 02:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all when it comes to a relationship the first thing is trust. If you didnt see your man dipping behing you then it didnt happen dont let anyone have presidence over your communication with your man.Second of all check that female let her know where you stand and dont tell her directly but let her know that you are confident in your relationship and you are not worried about any other woman taking him.So to make a long story short hes your man so let it be known.
2006-07-26 02:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by tatiana_madden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should never under estimate your boyfriend believing that he is innocent and will not do anything wrong.If the girl is nasty, why is she constantly around?your boyfriend and you should not have anything to do with this girl.If you noticed that you have completely cut the girl from your relationship, by going opposite ways when she comes around and not talking to her or anyone that talks to her, but she is some how connected to your boyfriend its because she is fu*king your boyfriend.If your boyfriend does not com front her in front of you, telling her that he does not like her and all ready have a girl which is you standing there, its obvious by that time he and her have a relationship.But if he is truly not messing with her, he will be the protector and tell her to leave you both alone and stay away from him in front of you.
2006-07-26 02:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very jealuos. She probly don''t have many friends and don't care. Best thing to do is just stay away from her. and them. Tell your b/f to also. She is just looking for a excuse to cause trouble.. Don't give her one. Don't hit her . That will cause you alot more trouble. Good Luck Pem
2006-07-26 02:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is ignore her and her friends.If you and your boyfriend Love each other and have trust and honesty then don't worry about her. As long as she sees it bothers you then she will keep on. When she sees it don't bother either one of you and it's not working then she will move on to make someone else miserable.
2006-07-26 01:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Nonna2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me about 2 years ago,and i started to believe it also,you just have to sit down and tell him the situation and every thing that is going on,if yall really like/love each other than it will all work out for the best.And no you probably shouldn't punch her it will just cause more drama and conflict,good luck.
2006-07-26 01:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would beat the living hell outta that hoe, or threaten her so bad that she wont even look ur way. i would get the ghettoiest guys to be outside her house or whereever you know where she be at and i would tell her if she f***s with you or ur man that them boys gonna whoop her ***. dont let some hoe interfere with ur relationship. i hope you and ur man stay happy.
2006-07-26 01:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by shortyP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it has happened to me!!! i trusted my boyfriend and we got through it. he wouldnt be my boyfriend if i couldnt trust him in situations like this. if you can not trust him in this situation you should let the other girl have him. because every girl is worth a trusting boyfriend!
thanx 4 2 points! good luck!
2006-07-26 01:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by luvskrbois 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has happend to me
you can do two things about it
one- completely ignore her and show her that you and your bf dont give a **** what she thinks about you two and what she says about you two..shes just jealous forget her
two- or you can fight her....but that just starts other problems
2006-07-26 01:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by Monica13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋