Gettin married in 11 days and the guy I have loved for years Finally admits his true feelings.How do I handle this and what do I say without ruinin the friendship??I care about him but he had his chance and waited to long.I love my fiance!!I want to keep my friend but don't want an akward friendship....
2006-07-25 18:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You HAVE to drop the friendship with the other guy for your marriage to work. Who in the world keeps old loves as "friends" in a happy marriage? I sure don't know of any...honestly.
2006-07-25 18:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your Friend only wants you cos you're not available, he had his chance and you are moving on. If you don't drop this Friend now, you'll end up having an affair or come dangerously close. Do you really want to start your marriage off by being tempted by a guy that had his chance and only wants you cos your getting married. This guy is messing with you. Maybe you have to let go and he has to learn to deal with the fact he let you slip through his fingers. Forget this guy, you're getting married and gonna have a wonderful new life.
2006-07-25 18:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm put yourself in your finaces shoes ok .. what if his ex the one he (loved) for along time came back into his life and told him she still loved him ..how would you feel ? I dont think it would be a good idea to try and keep a close relationship with your ex.. I think its disrespectful to you fiance and I dont think you needa be putting yourself into these kinda situations .. things happen and if u loved him for that long what makes you think u wont start loving him again ..your setting urself or someone up for heartache..he is an ex for a reason man o man be careful girl
2006-07-25 18:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to break all ties with him if you want your marriage to work. What skeez to wait 11 days before your married. Sounds like he doesn't want you but doesn't want anybody else to have you either.
2006-07-25 18:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he missed his chance if he still wants to be friends cool if not his loss
2006-07-25 18:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by vonettawilson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ur hearts says! u have 2 decide for future thinks u can make u happy more
2006-07-25 19:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him exactly what you said here, sounds great to me.
2006-07-25 18:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you love your guy and WILL be marrying him.
2006-07-26 05:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god by!!!!!! he will cause you trouble
2006-07-25 18:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋