I have tryed everything i can think of. I have "tryed new things" I have tryed to talk with him. and i have "looked for tale tale signs that hes getting it else ware I have found none. we have sex on Saturday nights. when we have sex. everytime. I have tryed spicing things up by asking for it other nights to no avail. Saturday is the only night he has that he dont have to get up and go to work the next day. so i can see why its easyer for him to wait until then for it but i would really like to have sex more often than one 30 min interlude on saturday. what can i do?
2006-07-25 18:26:48 · 5 answers · asked by naightengale 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go buy something really sexy/hot to wear for him,and try role playing do stuff that youve never done befor keep it interesting.
2006-07-25 19:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be some professional guidence will help it does sound like he is getting it from some where else. Im not trying to be mean but maybe he is gay and your not looking in the right place to find it. just a thought sorry.
2006-07-25 18:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that this is an important need of yours and that it is causing some resentment to build which isn't good for your marriage. When needs like this aren't met, affairs happen.
I have a really good site that has helped my husband and I get through many problems and helped identify them and give tools to help solve them.
http://www.marriagebuilders.com
Good luck!
2006-07-25 18:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'd hate to say it, tell him that if he doesn't give you more that your going elsewhere for fun. And then,....go elsewhere for fun. It can be really fun.
2006-07-25 18:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by J P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slip him the phil
2006-07-25 18:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋