Do you put yourself first in a relationship,marriage, when dealing with others, in giving, in interests, etc., or do you put the other first? I have always put my s/o or others before me. It's a wonderful feeling.
2006-07-25 18:20:09 · 8 answers · asked by nativeamericantay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
always put others first and in the end I'm the one left holding the bag like a idiot.
2006-07-25 18:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter, I put God first. When dealing with marriage my spouse comes first. I have always been the type to give a fellow the shirt off my back. It's a wonderful feeling, i agree.
2006-07-25 18:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it certainly depends upon the circumstances but then it's usually others...you know letting others speak,listening to them and then putting your opinion or so to say suggestion before them is always wise...it's your thought that matters ...put it first or later it should be done with equal amount of humour in it ..you see...
2006-07-25 21:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to put others first but we have to recognize that when it b/c too hectic in our lives that we have to stop trying to be a people pleaser and put out time for our selves. we need to kno when is the right time for ppl to come before u b/c in the end the most important thing in your live is your well being and if u arent well within your self then you arent well enough to help people. u need to be stable and help yourself first sometimes just to help other ppl
2006-07-25 18:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by n2ffn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! I try to always be considerate, kind, respectful, and selfless. Sometimes I'm taken advantage of by doing so, but I still believe that's the way we're supposed to live.
2006-07-25 18:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by The Invisible Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i put others befor me because i love seeing the smile on their face when someone thinks about them with out asking it just makes me fell good and want to help everyone, and not think of myself as most in the world think of themselves first
2006-07-25 18:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always put someone before me. even if i am dishing out a meal if their is a extra in my home i will give my meal to them i can go with out.
2006-07-25 21:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need a spankin' & believe me id always put you 1st for a silver antique a$$ whoopin. i empower my SO to be her best self for her self. then to share so with me. i love ot pamper, adn it may seem i do put her 1st but i put as if she and me are one in the same. i treat her like Christ says to, as He does the church. i do listen to her always and i put her ideas along side my own. if doing her way is best, or if it will accomplish the same goal. i do hers bc it empowers her. the home i shers to run as she pleases, my place is to provide the home and means for her to run it as she sees fit. i oversee our family, to lead us in love.
2006-07-25 21:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Spock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋