2006-07-25 18:10:26 · 11 answers · asked by hotcowgurl78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't. Remember how you fell in love with your husband, the way he has supported you and re-live good moments. Forget about your ex fiance. He is history, face it.
2006-07-25 18:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by chio'z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be in love with your ex or anybody else that is not your husband, is called an affair. It means that something in your marriage is not fulfilling your needs. So you have turned to you ex. What made him an ex in the first place? Why did you marry your husband? I think you don't really know what love is or how to give love. You are going to hurt both of you, when you tell him. I hope you are ready. Does your ex even really love you? But you need to be honest with your husband. He deserves the respect of being told. Move out of the house. Get a divorce so he can move on and find a woman who will cherish him.
2006-07-25 18:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont. your getting the two things mixed up-It is part your marriage isnt working and part unresolved feelings. you should deal with one at a time.fix the problem athome(end or stay) if you stay no prob if you go-your going to bring all the crap from the marriage into the relationship.I think you may be looking to use another man as an easy out-but its disrespectful to your husband....You took an oath to cherish that man,obey and honor-that didnt work out but at least give him some respect
2006-07-25 18:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just tell him. tell him you always want him to be truthfull to you so you want to be truthful to him and then tell him but do be nice about let him know you are sorry you enjoyed all your time together and this hurts you to because you do love him but your ex has your heart a little bit more and you are sorry.
2006-07-25 18:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... you don't. Because you don't fall in love with your ex-fiance.
But if you're going to do it, do it in a way that will end your relationship with your husband, because it is beyond unfair to string him along.
2006-07-25 18:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by barnett811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that you should unless you are prepared to break up or get into a huge fight. I am having this exact same problem. So maybe my advice isn't the greatest.
2006-07-25 18:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will most likely be a relief to your husband. Just give him his walking papers so he can find a DECENT woman this time...
2006-07-25 18:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by funigyrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really??? Then tell him you need a divorce or keep your mouth shut.
2006-07-25 18:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you find a quiet, private moment and have a heart to heart talk with him about your feelings---
2006-07-25 18:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
over beers, or just leave a note
2006-07-25 18:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋