2006-07-25 18:09:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This all depends on if you will be able to get over this or not. If you been together for a long time and this happened then your trust level might be destroyed. If you just got together then it might be easier to get over it.
2006-07-25 18:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do u feel about it? I forgave my ex and my man for cheating on me but they ended up doing it again. It's not acceptable. I think Men (and women...yes women do cheat) are programmed to cheat. Most men cheat and get caught, some dont. I say forgive him and kick his *** to the curb. But keep in mind that if you do stay with him, he was able to do it once, he will definitely be able to do it again. I mean, if u forgive him and stay with him, then he might think "Geez, i got away with it once so...". Trust me I know. Giving people chances is just that...giving them chances. It might be hard to leave him but you have to love yourself first. You deserve better than that. I dont care what kind of excuses he was able to come up with (ex: "i was drunk"..."It just happens"..." I was laying down, she slipped on a banana peel and landed on my penis")...none of those are valid and giving him a reason to do what he did. Kick him to the curb. Yes its easier said then done but its all up to you girl. If u feel u should give him another change, than do that but he will end up doing it again.
2006-07-25 18:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Carpe Diem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's really up to you, but its something you def should think about it
I went through that and now Im marring him every now and then I still think about it and this was over a year ago now, and it sucks he has proved me he has changed and he loves me more than ever and that by then she was just "there" (we had a long distance relationship, continents away!) and afterwards he reallized he was happier with me even though he could see me once a year and just talk to me on the phone than with her, but whatever you chose to do, think about it hard, is the relationship worth it? has he proven he has changed and hes sorry about it? if so yeah go ahead, the good thing about it (SOMETIMES) is that they learn from the mistake and wont do it :D , but sometimes they dont and they cheat again :(
Good luck!
2006-07-25 18:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by jimena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend slept with a nother girl but i loved him if u like him forgive him but if he shows any signs of cheating then dump him i gave my boyfriend a nother chance
2006-07-25 18:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by mexican 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a tough decision to make. basically, u need to know the real reason behind his action, and if you think that it is forgivable under the situation, you will forgive him. use your brain, not your heart.
2006-07-25 18:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by chio'z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should forgive him b/c this is life and babe pple make mistakes so the best thing to do is to just forgive him and move on with your life together. hopefully he wont do it again but if he does then just dump him.
2006-07-25 18:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by TNQE H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why he did it- was it his turn- like you have many friends to sleep with too? or was he just bored? or was this from a previous friendship that just needed to happen to make them complete?
Forgive him, or become swingers!
Is he worth keeping anyways?
2006-07-25 18:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by worxsigns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you forgive him
2006-07-26 12:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Nate Disle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice... you can forgive him if you want to, but it's his job to earn your trust, if there's going to be trust between you again.
2006-07-25 18:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course hes just warming you up to the idea of a three some
2006-07-25 18:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋