I have a crush on a Asian female yet most Asian females don't seem very intrested in white guys. Why's it so hard for a white guy to get a girlfriend?
2006-07-25 17:42:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
take a close look in the mirror,,do you like what you see?...does she like what she see when she see's you.........are you clean, do you smell awesome...do you work, do you have your own place to live,,,,,do you have your own car.........all of this matters to a women.........
2006-07-25 17:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've cut n pasted this off another asian/white boy question I answered.
I have dated a few asian girls and I'm living in china at the moment.
The thing although you may have style, intellect and athleticism or good looking that does not mean a lot to an asian if your just going out with an asian girls just on looks (although granted every one would like a nice looking partner but others are just not shallow enough not to say so) then that is your problem. Are you looking at these asian girls as part of your sexual fansanies, or do you like there pesonally or culture.
You will find there pesonally or culture a lot diffetent to western culture even if there bought up, They don't want some honry guy drooling all over them trying to get them into bed. It you come over like you mean you want to get into a relationship with them than they maybe open to the idea of wanting to date you, as it seems asian relationships don't care if your good looking
or whatever its a case of if your good family material and if you could care for you parter.
2006-07-25 17:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Hex Vision 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be cultural... Many American born asians continue to hold on to the beliefs and customs of their ancestors. Maybe some of the women feel that as a caucasian man you would not understand these beliefs and customs. Futhermore, due to the lack of understanding, you may ridicule their culture. Of course...this is just a guess. However, I am part asian (male) and I found that many other asians identify with how I feel, the things that I believe in, and what I've experienced.
2006-07-25 18:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by skew85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asian females are a little reserved when it comes to white guys. This is probably because of the prejidice of their parents to mixed marriage. Keep trying though it is probably not true in all cases.
2006-07-25 17:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that depends on which part in Asia is your crush. Here in our country, some women prefer to be with foreigners particularly Americans and Europeans. Im not saying that they dont want to be with guys of the same nationality as ours but they just happen to fall in love with someone from a different race.
Im living in Asia.
2006-07-25 17:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by lilac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the UK, alot of Asian girls go out with White guys. Regardless if they are butt ugly !
Because they find them taller etc etc, plus the guys won't have the traditional attachment like the majority of the asian guys there.
But in the US, it appears to be the other way round it seems... less mixed marriages. I mean in Houston, Texas.
?!?!?
2006-07-25 17:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by swma76 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honestly?...even though am going to sound like a B...( and I apologize for that )......because most "white guys"...are nice. There is nothing wrong with nice. But girls want the "bad boy". I have a friend that now that he is older and single ...everyone wants to be with him and he dates but will not settle with anyone because he was a "nice" person and no one wanted him then ..now that he is mature and has no "luggage"..he has tons of women after him. And let me add.. you just haven't found the right person for you. If you like this Asian girl.. go for it...send her flowers..talk to her...be friends..maybe something will happen. Good luck!!!
2006-07-25 17:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by bnina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As for the asian culture; they almost always date people in the same race. Meaning that an White guy should try a different race, as you wont have much luck.
2006-07-25 17:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by Stay-funny 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its not de white guy its de Asian female dat is de problem
not u
Asian female dna have in their code to never mix race.
by
ducter Lapis Lazuli
2006-07-25 17:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by Lapis Lazuli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depens on what kind of white guy u are. If you are cool and u look good with a dood phsique. All girls will like u homey. Say word.
2006-07-25 17:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by matt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to be yourself. In my dating experience, I have mostly dated white men, but I can say that they always tried to impress me rather than be themselves. Be a genuine person.
2006-07-25 17:56:05 · answer #11 · answered by SeraMcKay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋