Im happily married, but a little curious. My husband is all for me being curious,so thats cool. I was wondering if lesbian women think its annoying for "semi'straight" women to go to gay bars? and would most lesbians come up to me if they can kind of sense Im not 100% gay?...I just want to dance or chat a little..maybe a teeny bit more, but not sure what Im comfortable with yet.
2006-07-25 17:40:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Woman on woman sex is a normal part of heterosexuality. It has nothing to do with being a lesbian. You are likely to get a rather chilly reception at a gay bar.
Instead, a woman finds other women for sex partners through her male lover. You pick them up and seduce them together, at places that heterosexual people go to pick up members of the opposite sex.
Note, that this is not a good idea for married couples to do. It will weaken your marriage and has the potential to end it. At the very least, you will have problems stemming from this. You've been warned.
2006-07-25 17:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well before you do anything,ask yourself, "I'm a married woman, but I am curious about touching another woman sexually. Does this mean that there is something missing with my husband, and he is not satisfying me?". Your husband may think it's cool at first, but there may be jealousy down the road, when it hits him that his wife is out dancing and making out with other women. Of course some guys will think it's hot and sexy, but if it were their women, they might think differently. You are worried that lesbians will come up to you and sense that you "are not 100% gay"? What percentage of gay are you?
Why would you WANT to dance or do "maybe a teeny bit more" with a woman when you are MARRIED TO A MAN? HELLOOOOO!! Would you want your husband making out with other guys? I am thinking you would not. He may say yes, but your selfish desire for same sex fun with women will cause trouble down the road.
Again, if you were really "happily married" as you say you are, you would not even be thinking about this.
2006-07-25 18:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't be happily married if your curious about lesbianism. As for your husband being allfor you ,when it comes to your curiousity. Well of corse he's all for it .Especially when he stand's to gain more than he stac's to loose. If you do decide to go to this gay bar Of corse Women are going to come up too you or maybe even come on to you. Whatever the case consider the emotion's involved when it comes to the inocent ones .Example: kid's, Your loses's.What you stand too loose? Your husband may even want to see you with another woman. Maybe that's why he is so for it. He may even be more for it than you are. Be careful because what may seem curious to both of you may turn around and be a painful experice. So investigate more.
2006-07-25 18:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by ManyMom'sAdvice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually there are alot of women out there who are "bi-curious"...and there are places on the web that help you and others like yourself hook-up. Some even go so far as having 3 sums w/another bi-sexual female and the husband. One such place to meet like minded folks is adultfriendfinder.com...I have met quite few sexy people there...
2006-07-25 19:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people will be hostile to your curiosity, and accuse you of being "in denial" etc. But for the most part, gay and lesbian folks are pretty open minded. Go and have fun.
2006-07-25 18:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi. If you go to a "girl" bar, be upfront, tell them you are bi-curious. You might have some fun or maybe not. You'll have to find the right person. She probably will be bi also.
2006-07-25 17:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your marryed am gay and i think that is wrong for you to think that way and on the long run your husband is goin to cheat on you cuz is alright cuz you could do it
2006-07-26 01:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mermaid& Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most of the time if you tell them you just bi cursion we r kool with that maybe if you get the right one you all good
2006-07-25 17:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the girls I know who are,say the more the merrier.Go and check it out,no one will harm you or hurt your feelings.
2006-07-25 17:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that your husband would mind if you brought home
a little "experiment" for a threesome...
2006-07-25 18:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋