2006-07-25 17:31:25 · 9 answers · asked by Dana J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Me and my b/f have been together for 3 years. I love him and he loves me but my ex and I have justed started talking on myspace. Nothing serious but I know that I am not over him. (He is totally over me) My b/f and i want to get married but I can't marry him feeling this way.
2006-07-25 17:36:14 · update #1
It's only natural to still have feelings of some sort for an ex. It' doesnt matter how long you have been seperated. He will always carry round a small piece of your heart. You have shared alot of stuff together and been through things together so it's only natural to feel this way.
My best advice is to give yourself some time, I am not talking days here, I am talking at least a couple of more months before takiang the plung with your new boyfriend.
To this day, i can hear my first boyfriends name and my heart still does a little flip flop even though i am happily married. No, i don't love and wouldnt be with him, it's just that little piece of my heart that's missing that he has is saying something to me.
Hope that helps.
2006-07-25 17:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well u need to realize that what u had with your ex is over and move on to new things you're not in love with your ex you're just trying to find a way out of getting married because you are scared everything will work out for the best
2006-07-25 17:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by advice queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel, I'm still totally in love with my ex also, it has been really hard for me to love someone else when i still have feelings for my ex. If your relationship is as great as you say it is try and concentrate on that and stop talking to your ex
2006-07-25 17:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by countrygirl6183 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, major problem. This is why. TONIGHT I just told my husband that I want a separation and we have been married for four years. I haven't been in love with him for at least 2 years. I am still in love with my ex fiance. We have been talking. You need to clear up the mixed feelings with the ex now, have a final fling whatever because once you get married and you settle in with your husband, everything will get boring and the first thing you will want to do is cheat...TRUST ME... do it now.
2006-07-25 17:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by hotcowgurl78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why "Father Time" is such a great factor in ridacuring past factor's.
FINE.
you may have entered a great relationship, But with you came a hell of a problem.
2006-07-25 17:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by DUMMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's natural - u still love to your ex coz he is your first love so try to make compromise with present one and enjoy the life.
2006-07-25 18:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by john_0502000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some relationship books and start learning exactly what a good relationship is and MOSTLY - H O W to make one.
2006-07-25 17:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all u need to stop talkin to your ex mayb u just dont need anybody in your life right now.
2006-07-25 17:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your ex leave it alone great relationship you dont come across those everyday
2006-07-25 17:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by NICE-1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋