I'm totally serious here. I mean, it's not like we're married. And I still sleep with her too. So what's the big deal? Can someone tell me what I should do?
2006-07-25 17:28:56 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Oky first off, even though this doesn't make it any better, I never had an affair when I was married. My ex left me. I was depressed for a while and decided to change my life. I have a new lifestyle and woman in my life. My ex sees me a few weeks back and asks if we could have dinner. One thing led to the other, and now I just don't know what to do.
2006-07-25 17:49:11 · update #1
I think she will be tickled pink. NO you ****** moron of the century if shes smart she will brake up with your lying cheating backstabing bad breath gorilla azz. I hope you get every STD ever made you skum bag. stop wasting my ****** time asking idiotic questions that make you sound dislexic. you one eyed three legged dog!!!!!!!
2006-07-25 20:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel The Beautiful 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Affair With Ex Husband
2016-12-17 16:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infidelity is infidelity, period. You said it yourself. You are with a CURRENT girlfriend and sleeping with your EX-wife. The prefix EX means "former" or "past" so why are you going back there?
If you still had a thing for your ex then why'd you split up with her in the first place? Or ... why tie yourself to another woman (*sarcastic* it's not like you're married of anything!)
Hello! You made a commitment by forging a relationship with your current girlfriend. Exclusivity does not start with marriage, your know. The ceremony in front of the judge, minister, priest, is merely a public avowal of a private promise to love, honor, and cherish a person. Marriage makes it permanent. The "girlfriend" status should assure her of fidelity while you are together as a couple.
But if you are cheating on her now, with your ex, then maybe she should think about whether it is worth staying with you or not.
The only way I can see that it is ok is if you and your girlfriend are swingers and she has no issue with your ex --- which is rare, by the way.
Most people are automatically repelled when they hear about "the ex".
2006-07-25 17:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by slvrdlphn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's obviously something still there between you and your ex-wife. What happen that you split in the first place? Maybe you can revive things with her.
As for your current g/f, whether she will be upset or not is a no-brainer, of course she will be, but I would rather see if there is something of a few coals still hot with with your old flame, maybe there's more to it than you don't want to let go of, and just can't put your finger on it other than sex.
Frankly, I would talk to a marrige counselor, this isn't the place to do it because there are no simple answer to this question, especially if children are involved.
2006-07-25 17:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be upset if she were having an affair with her ex-husband or boyfriend?
Do you have any kind of "assumption of exclusivity"? If you are serious about wondering why she would be upset, then why haven't you already told her? could it be that little voice, called your BRAIN, is letting you know that OF COURSE she'd be upset, unless she doesn't care about you at all? Nobody likes to end up sitting in the stupid seat, which is what she'd feel like when she found out that this had been going on.
2006-07-25 17:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by kimba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO of course she's going to be upset!! The "big deal" is that you're unfaithful!! You can't be with two people at the same time. Most people in a relationship like the fact that their partner is LOYAL, if you aren't loyal to your girlfriend she isn't going to be happy. What you need to do is decide who you would rather be with & stick with them, let the other go. Why is you ex wife your ex?? did you cheat on her as well??
Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater, get help & stop toying with people's emotions
2006-07-25 17:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sedona Sunrise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course your gilfriend will be angry with you. I really think your doing the wrong thing & should really make up your mind if its your ex-wife or your current girlfriend you really want to be with. As this is just selfish by getting back with you ex-wife when you have a new girlfriend. "Do you still love your ex-wife"? if so you need to let you current girlfriend know so she can move on & not just hang around thinking your with her when your not. Would u be upset if she did that to u? if u would ur a hipocrate.
2006-07-25 17:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tennis_Ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so you want to have sex with two women, and you can't figure out why either one would mind? How did your first wife ever divorce such a forward thinking guy like you? She must have been out of her mind! Hey, why not have a three way? That way, one of them can kill you and blame it on the other one. If they both take this approach and are smart about it, they can off your sorry self and neither will go to jail!
2006-07-25 17:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by But why is the rum always gone? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, is your name mike? Naw, seriously, that is so wrong. I went through the same thing. I loved this guy so much and he was married then divorced. I gave him my all. We lasted about a year and a half and i found out that he was having sex with his ex-wife the whole time. I was devistated. Does your current girlfriend suspect that you are cheating on her with your ex-wife? If/when she finds out, you have NO IDEA the hurt that girl is going to go through. It took me soooooooo long to get over it. I was so hurt. And to think I suspected it the whole time and we even fought over it. He would accuse me of not trusting him and he even wanted to break up with me for not trusting him. Well...........
2006-07-25 17:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by Brooke's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You + Sex with ex-wife = current girlfriend WILL feel used
You + Sex with ex-ANY female + ANOTHER female = 1 too many
Someone can tell YOU what to do??? Doubtful, but ---- try this...
Accept responsibility for your choices, and live with the consequences (that are on the way, soon, I hope)!
My opinion???
Girlfriend should DUMP YOU into your ex-wife's life . . .
Then ex-wife should DUMP YOU into the street - permanently.
2006-07-25 17:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not only srcrewing those two, you're screwing yourself. Don't be all confused and wondering what's up in the end when the situation you created gets out of hand. There are consequences that you have will have to face. Those consequences are already coming at you fast and hard but they haven't gotten to you yet. I suggest stopping now before you lose it all to simple desires
The answer to your question is yes.
2006-07-25 17:38:17 · answer #11 · answered by B-Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋