I have posted a question just a few minutes ago. But people just jump to conclusions. I have worked since the day I turned 14. And I have just recently became unemployed due to circumstances I could not help. I am 25 years old and I have never asked anyone for help...and I know I asked my question wrong, like I was a bum sitting at home on my butt and just trying to "drain" sociaty, but maybe people should ask a question before they turn all judgemental on someone. I have not been trying to concieve since my unexepted unemployment, but there maybe a possiblity that I am since I have not been trying lately, and my stress level has been down.
Also, I was not asking anyone if I was p.g. I was just trying to get others opinion.
Sorry, for all this does not apply. But I feel better now, and this was sure worth 5 points.....Hope everyone has a nice day!!!
2006-07-25 17:27:49 · 9 answers · asked by sweetpeachiebear 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Thank you, posting that made me feel better.
2006-07-25 17:36:42 · update #1
irelandsmommy, I was not talking to you, I just had to get that off my chest, and it may not mean a hill of beans to the ones I did mean it for, but it did make me feel better.
2006-07-25 17:41:44 · update #2
girl you just said everything that i think everytime that i get on here ask a question. i feel like that people think that i am 12 yrs old and don't know a d**** thing.
2006-07-25 20:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by aprils242001 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
no kidding! i just went back and read some of the new answers!
and hey, i know you must be anxious to find out since you've been trying for so long, but there's plenty of time to get ready - 9 months!
also, i odn't know if this will make you feel any better, but to those who were mean, i just have to say, my husband had just started his own company and i worked for a private company taht didn't provide medical benefits until AFTER my son was born. i.e. i made "too much" to benefit from wonderful programs such as WIC, AIM and medi-cal. we ended up paying 13k+ for our son on a interest bearing loan from the hostpital. we were extremely strapped for cash for the first year of his life and it stunk cuz no-one would help. so to all those mean people - only answer what yer asked!
and our son is worth every penny.
2006-07-26 00:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by adrienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People really can be mean...if it makes you feel any better, I am not judging you. I know if I were out of work it would be really stressful as far money goes, not a joyride through a park.
Anyway, good luck with everything, I'm sure whatever happens, will happen for the best. Things always have a way of working out!
2006-07-26 00:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by Muggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of people walking around in this world, with blinders on. They can only see things one way....THEIR WAY!!! Its a sad way to live but just remember, when someone has judged you. while there is one finger pointing at you there are 3 more pointing back at them. (make a pointed finger and you will see what i mean.) There are also a lot of people on here that just like to stir it up a bit. I wish yahoo could screen them, cause i like this site, and the great input i do get out of it!
2006-07-26 00:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by bangbanks72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree and i hope you didnt think i was one of the mean ones!!i was just giving you honest,heartfelt advise that i actually had experience with!!i went back and read some of the answers after mine -the one about being a drain on society made me really mad-most people dont realize that over half the country is uninsured(health care wise),its very expensive and alot of jobs dont offer it,also alot of self employed people have a hard time getting affordable healthcare-which was my case!!that does not mean you should not be allowed to have a family!!!!if our country had a better health care system or made laws ensuring that it was affordable for all i for one would be very happy!!
good luck to you with whatever happens!!!!
2006-07-26 00:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by callalily07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry some people are mean. they usually are people who are miserable themselves. its sad. anyways, you can go to the free clinic, and get a test taken for free. no problems. also, if you call the local free clinic, they may be able to give you a number of a planned parent hood clinic. but im the phonebook, there are places listed that offer free preg testing, and will write a referal to get on preg medicaid. like it or not, some people cannot afford insurance, and need the help. i did with both my preg. no, im jumping up and down proud to say hey! im on welfare! but i needed the help, plus wic. you do your thing. good luck!!!
2006-07-26 00:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by mandi_090 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people come here because they have no life and try to answer as many questions as possible to get more points, so the saying "if you don't have something nice to say don't say nothing at all" doesn't get to them.
2006-07-26 00:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by someguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can in a way agree with you peopl should not jump to conclusions about things..it is not fair or right to do,,
2006-07-26 00:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people sometimes give an opinon where its isnt even needed, and doesnt even help, if they are going to do that i think ther should be a way to delete them so they cant get the points
2006-07-26 09:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋